Is it true about spanking?

Koko4no1

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Hi, many years ago a friend of mine told me that the aim of spanking is to refresh the blood circulation in the bottom area which will help in better sex, I did’t argue with him because I haven’t tried or heard such info
Couple of years ago I had some spanking, somehow it was not that much enjoyable but it was fine
Two weeks ago I saw a video of a woman spanking man so hard, truth to be told it turned me on big time, so I asked my BF to do me like this and he did
I forgot to mention that I have ejaculation problem due a diabetic issue for about 5 years now I almost dry cum or rarely 2 or 3 tiny drops that's all
So, back to the spanking session I let my BF focus on my anal spanking, can’t tell you how it felt, anyway after our spanking done he sucked me off and he was surprised with the amount of spunk I produced
I really have no clue or explanation about it, I thought it’s because I won’t ejaculated for a week? but this is not the first time I stay more than a week without ejaculation

Have anybody an explanation for that?
Thank you all
 

andrei

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I believe this is only related to the mental factor of excitement and not the blood flow in your buttocks. I don't think spanking makes the body react more than for a common bruise. Even the change in your blood pulse is due to what you feel at that moment (scared by a hard spanking or excited) and this influences your amount of cum. If it is the first orgasm in a day it just depends on how horny you are.

Try an exercise: edging. Get close to orgasm, don't cum. Let it rest a bit and start again. Try a few times, don't cum for at least half an hour, just keep yourself horny. See what happens when you finally decide to cum.
 

Koko4no1

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I believe this is only related to the mental factor of excitement and not the blood flow in your buttocks. I don't think spanking makes the body react more than for a common bruise. Even the change in your blood pulse is due to what you feel at that moment (scared by a hard spanking or excited) and this influences your amount of cum. If it is the first orgasm in a day it just depends on how horny you are.

Try an exercise: edging. Get close to orgasm, don't cum. Let it rest a bit and start again. Try a few times, don't cum for at least half an hour, just keep yourself horny. See what happens when you finally decide to cum.
Well, maybe you are right about the excitement and the mental condition

That exercise I never try before and I believe it'll be so hard to try, I always used to cum while I reach orgasm
Thank you and I wish you lovely day
 

andrei

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Well, maybe you are right about the excitement and the mental condition

That exercise I never try before and I believe it'll be so hard to try, I always used to cum while I reach orgasm
Thank you and I wish you lovely day
Edging is stopping in time before reaching orgasm, not during it (however it happened rarely to start having it but without cum. This is the "legendary" edging :) that prevents a ruined orgasm)

Google for joi (jerk off instructions), edging games etc in video section (pornhub, xhamster links) and try to follow the instructions.
 

Koko4no1

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Edging is stopping in time before reaching orgasm, not during it (however it happened rarely to start having it but without cum. This is the "legendary" edging :) that prevents a ruined orgasm)

Google for joi (jerk off instructions), edging games etc in video section (pornhub, xhamster links) and try to follow the instructions.
Do you think it would be easy for someone my age, over 60 to learn how to control it?
 

andrei

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Telling you it's not related to spanking I wanted to add that it's happening to me and I am 20 years younger.
 
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