You want to be treated like a kitty, he should put a collar on you. If he doesn't mind the feel of whiskers, then I think he should find a nice ring gag and add something to it so that you have whiskers. You should also rub up against him with the side of your head (kitties don't have hands). Likewise, to pleasure him, you are only allowed to use your tongue - as in a cat bath (hence the ring gag, with or without the whiskers).
