New Dom, experienced sub

Sparkytopdog

Kinky Newbie
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  • Male
  • Dominant
Feb 24, 2021
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Met a lady who is a lifetime sub but have no experience being a Dom. Does this have a snowballs chance in hell to work?
 
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subzzzero

Kink Talk Guru
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  • Male
  • Dominant
Dec 6, 2015
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Met like vanilla style and now this kink thing has come out? Or met like you scored a sub on a kink site and have no clue as to how you’ll proceed ?
Simple answer. Yes you can succeed. If you really want to. And if she really wants to. Get an mentor locally or online. Learn as much as you can and take some guidance from her as you learn. Go slowly be sure of things before you try them on her. It can be a fun exploration together. And if you’re both good on a vanilla level it can make it easier to add in the kink. Lots of open honest convo and discussion is needed here. Don’t even Afraid to admit you don’t know things or you need help. Cocky lack of knowledge attempts is how people get hurt. Be the man and ask for help when needed. You’ll get there if you both work on it. Try local munches, demos, meets, dungeons etc.
 
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