By asking female cows to assist you in learning this is essentially like topping from the bottom for them. If you don’t know what that term means then you should go do some reading research in the basics first. Find a mentor thats same role as you and see if they’re willing to help you out. You blindly taking on such a specific role with no knowledge or experience is dangerous to both parties involved.
Thank you for your reply, I do have about a years experience , not a complete newbie, and have been in the lifestyle for longer, so I doubt that any interactions would be dangerous, perhaps I should amend to highlight a request for conversation rather than ownership etc , but I appreciate your advise regardless and wish you a good day, thank you