I'm very new to all of this, in fact I've only shared one sexual experience with another person and still have never had intercourse....and I'm 23 years old now. I'd prefer no one refer to me as a virgin, I find the word too tied to outdated notions of sex and sexuality. I heard BDSM communities tend to be...safe places where people don't judge.
I guess I'm here to just learn more about what it means to submit and about myself. Maybe makes some friends along the way. Whether I'm ready to find a Dom is another story, just people to talk to about this is enough for now be they Doms or fellow Subs. Flirting would be fine-no-I don't know.
...how pitiful does all this make me sound?
Official BDSM Questions
1. What does it mean to you to submit? Or have someone submit to you?
2. Was submitting the first time scary? Was dominating the first time scary?
3. Ever have a bad experience with a d/s??
4. Is it weird that I'm pretty damn sure I'm a submissive when I've so little experience with sex at all?
5. Is it easy to tell someone is a dom/sub before they say so that is? Guess that's a question for very experienced people here.
Questions can be asked of me as well, so feel free.
I guess I'm here to just learn more about what it means to submit and about myself. Maybe makes some friends along the way. Whether I'm ready to find a Dom is another story, just people to talk to about this is enough for now be they Doms or fellow Subs. Flirting would be fine-no-I don't know.
...how pitiful does all this make me sound?
Official BDSM Questions
1. What does it mean to you to submit? Or have someone submit to you?
2. Was submitting the first time scary? Was dominating the first time scary?
3. Ever have a bad experience with a d/s??
4. Is it weird that I'm pretty damn sure I'm a submissive when I've so little experience with sex at all?
5. Is it easy to tell someone is a dom/sub before they say so that is? Guess that's a question for very experienced people here.
Questions can be asked of me as well, so feel free.