The first part of my post was more directed at Lexi's comments and more specifically at the "true subs who are upt to whatever" stuff more than to your reply actually
But in the event that someone doesn't tell they are switches or hold any other kind of information of that nature to their partners then I still consider it to be a communication issue. I've been in a few situations where I had partners who were switches. The first time I was asked to switch I did it and found out a new limit So with that experience I always brought the subject up to the pertners I had after that and clearly explained I would not go there. Of course, if someone holds that information from you and then later try to "force" their partner to switch then I'd say it's time to sit down and have a good discussion and make things perfectly clear for both partners.
I do very much agree, communication is key in any relationship. I'll admit I've had my fair share of D/S relationships where I could have communicated better, over the years though I've learned from past mistakes. Some of my mistakes I do repeat but these issues come from my trust issues more, something I won't go into on here, though I have told people I trust online and know my friendship with them will stay only online.
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To keep this on topic, I feel a revolt could be a good thing to try in a roleplay so long as both particapants were okay with it. That being said though, I find that most submissives and most dominants wouldn't try it.
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