So about those BDSM videos...

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You're scrolling through your favorite BDSM porn site and find a really intense BDSM scene, very convincing right?
This is the real thing, just the sub, the Master and lots of intense action.

Well no, not quite. Behind the scenes these things are (mostly) really well produced with health and safety as priorities, after all you don't want to injure the talent.
And so they have a whole pit crew dedicated to looking after the actors, ensuring they are ok at all times, checking binding tension, supplying water and generally keeping things safe and under control.

Can you say the same about your kink?

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All good here, play safe.
 
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Yes indeed same for all those perfectly timed hours long scripted single awesome bdsm photos you see.

Just like any other movie production it’s all takes and retakes and whole lot of support staff to make it happen.
 

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You're scrolling through your favorite BDSM porn site and find a really intense BDSM scene, very convincing right?
This is the real thing, just the sub, the Master and lots of intense action.

Well no, not quite. Behind the scenes these things are (mostly) really well produced with health and safety as priorities, after all you don't want to injure the talent.
And so they have a whole pit crew dedicated to looking after the actors, ensuring they are ok at all times, checking binding tension, supplying water and generally keeping things safe and under control.

Can you say the same about your kink?

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All good here, play safe.
I just love the boner the guy in blue shorts is rocking.
 
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There are probably people here who would like a group of people watching them attempt their kinks. ;) for safety.

There are some horror stories of vaginas being turned inside out by fucking machines. It underlines the importance of researching before attempting anything new.
 
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Unless it's real amateur stuff, then most of the time the people on screen are paid performers whose job it is to make something look more intense than it actually is. Take ballbusting for example: if you watch the "buster", most of the time with a kick or knee the blow is not fully directed at the guys balls, the dommes toes might connect around the perineum area, absorbing the force. But it looks authentic, right?

Don't get me wrong, there's still some pretty hard core kink to be found, it's not all smoke and mirrors. But just be aware that fantasy is greater than reality most of the time. And that's what porn is - fantasy.
 

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Exactly right.

And this is a problem for bdsm newbies who look at that stuff and think that it's real, then try this stuff on their partner or themselves. Thing is in real life you don't get to edit out the behind the scenes stuff, it's part of your play.
 
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