Following on from "What's humiliating?" and on a related note I wanted to cover what's objectifying.
This is also a fairly personal thing however the overarching concept is pretty straightforward;
verb
verb: objectify; 3rd person present: objectifies; past tense: objectified; past participle: objectified; gerund or present participle: objectifying
This can be in the form of treating the whole person as an object or commonly focusing on specific aspects. The most obvious ones being for women, with terms like "nice rack" or "that's a great piece of ass" and so on. Now while in regular society this is not acceptable for many of us in the kink world it becomes an actual wanted, even craved thing.
But you still need to be careful with it's use, not all submissives enjoy or want to be objectified, it's something they must consent to before you use it. Even then you need to be sure of exactly what they enjoy about it, some will be fine with an "anything goes" approach while others may be ok with certain aspects being objectified but other areas are out of bounds.
Then you need to be aware that objectifying doesn't automatically mean insulting, it can be the person wants certain things discussed in isolation, as an object but at the same time likes to hear complementary things. This is still objectifying, discussing parts of someone's appearance in isolation from the person is a decoupling that reduces them to object status.
Ok, so enough of the technicalities, lets move on to some examples.
As mentioned at the outset objectification and humiliation are intertwined so there is quite a bit of crossover in some of the examples I'm going to use.
Whole body objectification. Some examples of this are things like head bagging, or using something else to cover your face. This effectively removes "you" from the rest of your body. Our own @Asianfucktoy posted an album using this exact theme a few days ago.
Of course you don't need to actually cover their face, simply ignoring them and discussing or focusing only on their "parts" is just as effective.
Partial body objectification. Here you've got things that range from simply being topless or bottomless to modified clothing such as shirts with cutouts for boobs, open nipple bras, ctrotchless underwear, even open crotch pants and so on. This type of displaying certain body parts puts them starkly in contrast to the rest of the body and focuses attention on just that. Hucow kink is firmly based in objectifying, specifically big breasts and making them the central theme of the activities.
Time for another list, as before you can look through and see which of these might be on your yes list and which are NFW. I apologize in advance that all of these will be ideas that work mostly or only for women but that's just my experience, guys can add their examples in the comments.
This time I'll also be adding links if I've made a post on the specific idea, mostly because I had several requests for them after the humiliation thread.
This is also a fairly personal thing however the overarching concept is pretty straightforward;
verb
verb: objectify; 3rd person present: objectifies; past tense: objectified; past participle: objectified; gerund or present participle: objectifying
- 1.
degrade to the status of a mere object.
This can be in the form of treating the whole person as an object or commonly focusing on specific aspects. The most obvious ones being for women, with terms like "nice rack" or "that's a great piece of ass" and so on. Now while in regular society this is not acceptable for many of us in the kink world it becomes an actual wanted, even craved thing.
But you still need to be careful with it's use, not all submissives enjoy or want to be objectified, it's something they must consent to before you use it. Even then you need to be sure of exactly what they enjoy about it, some will be fine with an "anything goes" approach while others may be ok with certain aspects being objectified but other areas are out of bounds.
Then you need to be aware that objectifying doesn't automatically mean insulting, it can be the person wants certain things discussed in isolation, as an object but at the same time likes to hear complementary things. This is still objectifying, discussing parts of someone's appearance in isolation from the person is a decoupling that reduces them to object status.
Ok, so enough of the technicalities, lets move on to some examples.
As mentioned at the outset objectification and humiliation are intertwined so there is quite a bit of crossover in some of the examples I'm going to use.
Whole body objectification. Some examples of this are things like head bagging, or using something else to cover your face. This effectively removes "you" from the rest of your body. Our own @Asianfucktoy posted an album using this exact theme a few days ago.
Of course you don't need to actually cover their face, simply ignoring them and discussing or focusing only on their "parts" is just as effective.
Partial body objectification. Here you've got things that range from simply being topless or bottomless to modified clothing such as shirts with cutouts for boobs, open nipple bras, ctrotchless underwear, even open crotch pants and so on. This type of displaying certain body parts puts them starkly in contrast to the rest of the body and focuses attention on just that. Hucow kink is firmly based in objectifying, specifically big breasts and making them the central theme of the activities.
Time for another list, as before you can look through and see which of these might be on your yes list and which are NFW. I apologize in advance that all of these will be ideas that work mostly or only for women but that's just my experience, guys can add their examples in the comments.
This time I'll also be adding links if I've made a post on the specific idea, mostly because I had several requests for them after the humiliation thread.
- Head bagging
- Hucow shirt (t-shirt with boob holes)
- Crotchless pants
- Boobs in a box
- Open nipple bras
- No bra with tight/wet t-shirt
- Over tight leggings or similar no underwear
- Topless house chores
- Bottomless house chores
- Boob waterfall, hang boobs over the back of a chair/bedhead etc
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