Why is the word cunt considered to be more extreme then pussy?

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I am from the German language culture, with english being a 2nd language for me, and I have always wondered why cunt is considered such a taboo. Pussy is basically a mainstream english word, and I have noticed that the same is happening to fuck. mainstream media, at least in written form, are starting to not censor fuck. I have seen it uncensored on cnn.com. However if one used the word cunt, then people gasp, stop their conversation, and look at you. Maybe I am not understanding it, I always considered it a synonym for pussy, vagina.
 
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Great question!

I really don't know why this one word is singled out and has that *shock* status. Of course we're really only talking about the British and Americans being shocked, here in Australia but also Scotland and Ireland cunt is used with robust regularity.

However I get your point, and even in places like Australia it's probably more commonly a derogatory form of vagina. That said I know plenty of gals that always refer to it as their cunt, ironically often because they dislike the word pussy as being silly. Kind of like saying you're doing pee pee. These are usually the same girls who also hate panties, preferring the much more Aussie "undies".

Very curious to see what others make of this, especially anyone else with English as a second language such as yourself.
 

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Great question!

I really don't know why this one word is singled out and has that *shock* status. Of course we're really only talking about the British and Americans being shocked, here in Australia but also Scotland and Ireland cunt is used with robust regularity.

However I get your point, and even in places like Australia it's probably more commonly a derogatory form of vagina. That said I know plenty of gals that always refer to it as their cunt, ironically often because they dislike the word pussy as being silly. Kind of like saying you're doing pee pee. These are usually the same girls who also hate panties, preferring the much more Aussie "undies".

Very curious to see what others make of this, especially anyone else with English as a second language such as yourself.
I believe it the way it used not the word . Most people only say when there trying to put someone down .
 

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I am from the German language culture, with english being a 2nd language for me, and I have always wondered why cunt is considered such a taboo. Pussy is basically a mainstream english word, and I have noticed that the same is happening to fuck. mainstream media, at least in written form, are starting to not censor fuck. I have seen it uncensored on cnn.com. However if one used the word cunt, then people gasp, stop their conversation, and look at you. Maybe I am not understanding it, I always considered it a synonym for pussy, vagina.
Not sure why cunt taken so badly and it's actually enforced when growing up how bad it is. I do think that like fuck cunt has so many meaning from empathy to chastising. As you pointed out it's not acceptable in ' mainstream ' world and thank fuck as we can embrace and use Cunt how we want!! Lol
 

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English is my first language and only, apart from some schoolboy German my only language. As Faulkner mentions the cunt word was one if not the worse swear word you could use. I grew up in the '70s & '80s and swear was not as publicly accepted as it is now. It was used between people but not in the media. Even in soft porn magazines you never saw the word cunt.

We kids used it but only as of the derogatory form as in "you're a right cunt". My parents didn't swear much, Mum never, Dad occasionally when Mum wasn't about.
I would occasionally slip a swear word out when my parents were around and I usually got the telling off of, "Don't swear", but once I used the cunt and all hell broke loose and I got a right good telling off.

It isn't a word I use much myself but then I'm not a great swearer, the occasional fuck, shit, bollocks, and that is it. For me what is termed swear words are for when you wish to express an extreme of something as in "that is fucking smart" as opposed to "that's smart" .

The word Pussy was about in the media, mainly in comedy. The Are you being served, series used it a lot. in the pretext of referring to Mrs, Slocombe's pet cat but everyone knew what it meant really. See some here. lol.

When I was growing up the slang for a vagina was Fanny and that was in wide use then and still is for my generation but in North American English, fanny is slang for your arse or ass. It always amused us greatly when an American male said something like "I had to put some cream on my fanny". But of course, as the main language of the internet seems to be North Americanised English using the word fanny would confuse matters whereas pussy is really the same in English English and American English.
 

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English is my first language and only, apart from some schoolboy German my only language. As Faulkner mentions the cunt word was one if not the worse swear word you could use. I grew up in the '70s & '80s and swear was not as publicly accepted as it is now. It was used between people but not in the media. Even in soft porn magazines you never saw the word cunt.

We kids used it but only as of the derogatory form as in "you're a right cunt". My parents didn't swear much, Mum never, Dad occasionally when Mum wasn't about.
I would occasionally slip a swear word out when my parents were around and I usually got the telling off of, "Don't swear", but once I used the cunt and all hell broke loose and I got a right good telling off.

It isn't a word I use much myself but then I'm not a great swearer, the occasional fuck, shit, bollocks, and that is it. For me what is termed swear words are for when you wish to express an extreme of something as in "that is fucking smart" as opposed to "that's smart" .

The word Pussy was about in the media, mainly in comedy. The Are you being served, series used it a lot. in the pretext of referring to Mrs, Slocombe's pet cat but everyone knew what it meant really. See some here. lol.

When I was growing up the slang for a vagina was Fanny and that was in wide use then and still is for my generation but in North American English, fanny is slang for your arse or ass. It always amused us greatly when an American male said something like "I had to put some cream on my fanny". But of course, as the main language of the internet seems to be North Americanised English using the word fanny would confuse matters whereas pussy is really the same in English English and American English.
DeedeeDazy, no one will cover that subject any better and we'll put. Could say a brainy cunt. Lol Here we use beaver and gash but doesn't have the impact of variety use of cunt.
 
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The main reason is the difference in Meaning , while pussy also applies to a cute cat or kitten, like the german Kätzchen is cunt also a word for a nasty woman / man like the german Fotze, so mostly used in deprivating manner.
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not sure about others, but for me and some other INDIANS , pussy is a women's body part while cunt is a word to define one's nature like "whore"
 

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Great question!

I really don't know why this one word is singled out and has that *shock* status. Of course we're really only talking about the British and Americans being shocked, here in Australia but also Scotland and Ireland cunt is used with robust regularity.

However I get your point, and even in places like Australia it's probably more commonly a derogatory form of vagina. That said I know plenty of gals that always refer to it as their cunt, ironically often because they dislike the word pussy as being silly. Kind of like saying you're doing pee pee. These are usually the same girls who also hate panties, preferring the much more Aussie "undies".

Very curious to see what others make of this, especially anyone else with English as a second language such as yourself.

not sure about others, but for me and some other INDIANS , pussy is a women's body part while cunt is a word to define one's nature like "whore"
I think thats maybe it. Like in male terms cock vs dick or prick.

Although all those can indicate a male organ, the latter 2 also indicate a personality in a non flattering way.
 

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