Will the real dom please stand up

StormyDungeons

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This post is to clarify a few things and the 1st being = there is no such thing as a 20 something dom. Nope nada aint going to happen.

These are precocious tarts for pay. Being a dom IS A PSYCHOLOGY, A PERSONNA, AND AN ARTFORM.

1 grand fem dom = mistress t. She is in her 50s as all the best fem doms are.

When you are younger sex is about intercourse. Once at age 40 human bodies rebel against us & that and it is at that point when sex play becomes s meaningful thing.

It is far more sophisticated and psychological than intercourse could ever be. People do not seem to know that guys can orgasm without ejaculating. Oh yeah this is real.

People also do not seem to know that the confirmed number of erogenous zones on a female = undetermined. This means they got to 100 and were so stunned they stopped counting.

Sure you know about the G spot but what about the H or Z spots?

Historically sophisticated sex play and true kink ALWAYS was for people over 40 and today it still is.

To the point where there are major porn stars who never did porn before age 45. I cite zoey holloway who today is 55 and stunning. Her specialty is mommy porn/helping son and as far as fantasy she us sublime.

Other older fem doms include lady fyre and lady sonia. Combined with mistress T they compose a very formidible group and for good reason.

Older women simply have not only a greater sense of sexual capacity but also a greater sense of sophistication about it.

Being a master is always 80% psycholgical environment to begin with and 20% physical. Being older and having more profound experience only serves to feed this.

Even in the secular world super fems like jennifer aniston did not become stunning until post 40. Nature does teach us. Older fems have inherently more confidence and sense of authority and we see this snd respond which was why sarah palin rocked our fantasy worlds.

Im not trying to pick fights but am sexually educated literally and from that fully know what a bona fide dom IS and is not. 20 somethings need not apply. You simply dont know enough.
 
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You have put a lot of real thought into it. I think for most people sex is sex. They don't realize the psychology behind it. Really what you said makes a person stop and think.
 

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You have put a lot of real thought into it. I think for most people sex is sex. They don't realize the psychology behind it. Really what you said makes a person stop and think.
Thank you. Most people are victims of 50 shades. That work was whimsical and insulting. Others are victims of masters on sex. Masters and Johnson spent so much time & energy on their dysfunctional marriage that they really never got into deep sex research as they intended. The Kinseys on the other hand pushed miles into that and are legends. Another person is German born fem - Sherre Hitte author of THE HITTE REPORT. That book seems tame now but wad way past limits when it came out in the 70s AND Hitte is largely responsible for the female sexual revolution we have today.

I just like bringing sound knowledge to the table so everyone can have better experiences regardless of forms of expression.

Especially in the midst of another morality movement. Vice even cancelled SLUTEVER = how lame was that? And hbo terminated sales and online postings of its famous 90s show REAL SEX. So in light of those snd more, we must forge on best as we can. Sexuality, spirituality, and HUMANITY are all 100% tied together. You might call that tied up thing - human BONDAGE, as funny as that note is. -:)
 

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