Any bigger girls into humiliation about your weight?

[AmateurDom]

Can't see any post on here about this so far, but this is one of my favourite fetishes. I love to humiliate a larger woman about her weight and using words such pig, whale, fat slut to make her feel humiliated, but also very turned on. Is anyone into this and if so how do you like to humiliate/be humiliated about your weight?

 

[Scrib]

For public play tight clothing two to three sizes too small, worn in places where there is constant public attention.

 

[AmateurDom]

For public play tight clothing two to three sizes too small, worn in places where there is constant public attention.

Yep, one of my favourite ideas. The idea of publicly shaming her in clothes too small for her so everyone can see her belly, thighs and rolls while she gets wet because of it. Love the idea of doing this

 

[Scrib]

If the clothes are the right materials and design (or even just poorly made) you can usually weaken the seams so that they split very easily. Combine this with some bending and stretching (eg car washing) or goals (you want the donut, you just have to reach for it) and the fun starts.

Try clothes 'shopping' in a store on a Saturday morning, where she comes out to ask for advice from the assistant. Watch their face when the clothing is SO small it won't go on let alone do up and everyone can see her flesh. A nice Bi undertone to this sort of play also, if you are training for that.

Posting pictures of her nude wearing a pig mask can be a gateway for this sort of play. It is public but private at the same time. When the positive comments start appearing she will start to get into it.

Making her eat from a trough whilst you excite her from behind, with something she then has to consume or lick clean works well also

Arousal and embarrassment are such powerful emotions and great bedfellows.

 

[Scrib]

That was not a full size trough but a smaller animal feeder, which are easy to buy or make.

Let us not forget the essential carthorse. Mounting your mare with a suitable animal dildo, big toys for large lasses is a different sort of pony-play.

 

[andrei]

yeah, most overweight women find wearing sexier clothes humiliating to them. Something to work around.

 

[Scrib]

yeah, most overweight women find wearing sexier clothes humiliating to them. Something to work around.

I find obviously nude beneath loose clothing on a full bodied woman really sexy.

 

[andrei]

kind of profit because overweight girls particularly are having a complex about their weight and body appearance. They don't know how much we love them.

 

[Scrib]

Fully fleshed women are so sexy because they will satisfy their appetites for far more than food. They are in touch with their own sensuousness and openly indulge in pleasure.

Playing with their insecurities is just play, no different to a paddling or nipple clamps,

 

[andrei]

some are anarchists and others are shy and committed to their appearance. It's a complex you can't just fight to change their mind.

 

[Scrib]

You mean 'If you love me you love all of me and accept me as I am ...'?

To me the problem is a societal one. Some tum, bum and curve etc is really sexy. Some women look far better heavier and naked than they ever wiil in clothes. Women are usually built to be that way for reproductive fitness. The problem is that they (and men have their own problems here also) are subjected to artificial images of what is 'attractive'. By creating an artificial ideal that few can achieve it is possible to 'sell' a solution and make money from it.

A confident, has her shit together 'fat' woman is far more attractive than a supermodel who is feeling guilty because she ate two grapes for lunch then had a glass of water for dessert.

At the end of the day BDSM play is about hurting not harming. Exploiting societal norms by calling someone a 'slut' or a 'pig' is about pressing someone's shame buttons. If it is a problem hen hard limit it out of any play.

 

[Patria]

Interesting ideas about the public shaming play. I personally love when my girl wears too tight clothes which just makes her look so mellow.

I have this one thing that seems kind of unusual, but I love to bellyplay her as foreplay and then oil up and fuck her fat belly. It started really spontaneous but it was really arousing for us both. I haven’t found a lot about it online though. Pornhub user Majorbelly is almost the only ones that produces material which depicts this. Is that really that odd or surely anyone here has any experience of this?

I have made her think less about her body being a sensitive subject to really encourage this as her ”USP” so to speak. It had really benefitted us both.

 

[Scrib]

Interesting ideas about the public shaming play. I personally love when my girl wears too tight clothes which just makes her look so mellow.

I have this one thing that seems kind of unusual, but I love to bellyplay her as foreplay and then oil up and fuck her fat belly. It started really spontaneous but it was really arousing for us both. I haven’t found a lot about it online though. Pornhub user Majorbelly is almost the only ones that produces material which depicts this. Is that really that odd or surely anyone here has any experience of this?

I have made her think less about her body being a sensitive subject to really encourage this as her ”USP” so to speak. It had really benefitted us bot

There is a m2m 'belly rub' that sounds similar as a form of frottage.

This might be something a BBW thread might be more aware of.

Something else to add to my ToDo list!