Recent content by Sayuri

Thank you for your replies. I am trying to understand and support how he feels. I have told him I'm not angry or blame him as I know he can't help his urges and feelings. I dont think he is interested in a poly relationship he loves the fantasy, (of a guy) but won't pursue it, I'm not sure...

He uses butt plugs but that was it before I came along. We have done anal play, I have pegged him (which we explored together and he did sissygasm) he has fantasised about me fisting him but we haven't done that. He has also used the dildo himself without me. He was watching pegging porn, then...

Yes you are right. I am invested. I've know him as a family friend for a long time and then when we started messaging and opening up to eachother it has been very special. I feel very honored that he trusts me so much with all this. He isn't polygamous, I asked him if he fancied men or if he...

I'm in a very unusual friendship/ relationship with a guy (I have known him all my life but only reconnected and been in this dynamic the last 20+ months). He has opened up to me (which he hasn't done with anyone else) about kinks and urges which first started with wearing thongs, then...

Thank you so much this is great and yes very happy to chat. So he already had 2 butt plugs and a few satin thongs (he wears daily now) but hid them from his ex. (He said he could never tell her) I'm still quite surprised that he told me and wants to explore this with me. I've actually been out...

Hi All, Thanks again for all your support and advice for my venture into FemDom. Things are going very well and my guy really enjoyed our pegging experience. I'm sure this must be normal that as we explore these kinks new ones arise. Im sorry if there are already posts regarding this (I did...

Thank you. You're right I'm not looking for any subs just education and ideas.

Hi, I am unable to see my sub regularly but would like to give him some challenges and orders that he can do without me? I've already had him do his laundry in just a thong, wear a butt plug to do his shopping and some forced masterbation but I'd love some ideas (from Doms and Subs) to mix...

Thought I'd give this a go as I'm new to BDSM == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 84% Rope bunny 78% Rigger 75% Dominant 61% Submissive 59% Degrader 59% Experimentalist 55% Vanilla 52% Brat tamer 48% Brat 35% Master/Mistress 35% Masochist 31% Sadist 27% Primal (Prey) 20%...

Hi, I have very recently experienced my 1st time pegging and have written about it in my post 'New to FemDom'. It's my honest experience and it was very empowering and enjoyable for both of us? It's at the bottom of the thread but it might be insightful for your wife? Go for it!

Hi, sorry if this might be graphic. So a bit of back story I was away on holiday for almost 2 weeks and had told him to abstain (orgasm denile) it was supposed to be for a week but he didn't follow orders and it ended up being 10 days. Again this was something new to both of us and he loved it...

Hi everyone thought I'd just update you. We went for it (pegging) and it was a really good experience for both! The harness was a bit fiddly to sort out but quite comfy. There was alot of prep obviously and as advised we chatted about positions expectations and reassured eachother. With it...

Thank you all for replying and your advice I really appreciate it. Thankfully we communicate extreamly well (I'm not sure if it's due to being very old friends) but I think it might be in part the reason he feels comfortable opening up and talking to me, (we spent alot of time together as...

Hi All, I have just started a relationship with an old childhood friend who has expressed a desire to be treated like a whore and for me to peg him. He has never explored this or spoken about it with anyone even his past girlfiends but feels like he can talk to me and wants to explore this with...