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  1. newtotry

    Denial ideas

    Hello all! My slaves are in need of some orgasm denial and I am coming to the community to help me out! Give me your best, give me your worst! I need all those precious orgasm denial ideas!!! :D;):p:cool:
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    The Most Dominant Woman!

    Ok, asking just out of curiosity but what are the most Dominant women on TV, videogames, in books, and in RL (celebrities) that you can think of? You can post up to your top three. This is open to Dominants and slaves. Make sure you tell us why! Constance from American Horror Story- She makes...
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    Christmas Task help!

    Hello! I need help coming up with a Christmas task for my slaves. I want it to be something yummy (no food please), Christmas-y, and involves glitter and Christmas items! Just to get them in the Holiday Spirit. Give me you thoughts! ;)
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    Where can I find gay guys aside from CL

    Have an urge that I need to take care of.
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    15 Things this Mistress has learned

    Hello everyone! Long time no post. I just wanted to put up a list to help ladies new to femdom to prevent a lot of problems. I have learned this through research and trail and error. 1. When doing BDSM online get to know the person first, know their attention span, what they like, and what...
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    Inreractive Cyber sex toys? Finallly!

    I saw this and just had to share! i don't know if this is old news or not but I found some sex toys that could be controlled by a person on the internet. I thought it had real potential for long distance BDSM relationships. Follow the link and tell me what you think...
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    Where's the best place to whip and not to whip?

    I'm not sure if this is under the right category but worst comes to worst it will be moved. Where is the best place to whip on the body where no serious harm will be done? Where are some places that you NEVER whip due to the risk of harm? What's your favorite place to be whipped?
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    How long can clothespins safely stay on Nipples, Cock, or Scrotum?

    I need to know how long clothespins can safely be applied to nipples, cock, or scrotum? Not all at one but for each body part individually. I have heard that if clothespins are on for too long they can cause numbness and nerve damage. Is this true? I need to know how long is counted as "safe", I...
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    What's the best makeshift gag?

    I think that title says it all. I need things that are safe and will not harm my slave. Are panties a good gag? What about a rolled up sock? I guess that I could have him use duct tape, but I need some feedback on this. What have you used to gag your slave with and are there any recommendations?
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    What do you think of Submissive Report Cards?

    I recently read an article in the New York Time about two schools that were trying to instill value and character into the kids. The school started giving out "character report cards" which were based off of things like politeness, listening, determination, attention-focusing, willingness to...
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    The problem of disappearing online subs?

    Ok. Stop me if you heard this one. Dominant person puts out an ad for a sub. sub contacts the Dominant and they have a really great session and allude to wanting to have another one or continuing. Then, all of a sudden the Dominant doesn't get any emails and can't do anything to get in touch...
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    Things that may help the Nervous Newbies

    Hello Everyone, I was talking to a friend about cybering but being nervous about dominating online. He suggested that I go on anonymous cyber chats and try to dominate there. It made sense. You can change your user name and no one knows you. If you mess up or do something embarrassing, you can...
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    Can anyone Tell me a little about Online Femdom?

    Hello Everyone! I'm a newbie but I have been interested in Femdom since I was a teenager. I am 21 now and I think it's time I jumped in the water. I want to start off finding a slave online but I was wondering what online Femdom entails. Can any of the Mistresses here tell me how I go about it...