25 F looking for 24-34 M/F Dom/Domme/Couple

Sexuality
Bisexual
Gender
Female
Orientation
Submissive
Region
Western Europe
Age
25
Kinks
I have had experience.
But usually and mostly Bad/worse/horrible experience even downright abusive and neglectful. So, prefer me new.
General things I found that I really like and want are -
Strictness: I am a slacker so... tbh I am not, I just like to think I am.
Rules: Without rules, I am generally lost (m not but I enjoy them)
Pain, Journal entries (I would really love if I can write my day), Serving, Control, Bondage etc.
Limits
Dislikes:
Punishments (I don't really think anyone likes punishments)
Humiliation (there's a fickle line here, which I will explain personally)
Writing Lines.

Limits:
Anal, pee, poop, scat, cum eating, Semi-Public, Clothing Control, Public, Exposure, Social Suicide, Friends, Family. And *insert general limits here* probably all that goes with Limits.

I have been in a lot of abusive and neglectful relationships hence If some of my Limits dislikes clash yours we can work on that as long as you take it slow. I am open to new things
Experience
2+ years online

Olette

Kinky Newbie
  • Bisexual
  • Female
  • Submissive
Nov 8, 2019
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Hey There!

How are you? Is ad hunting going good? Well, you clicked on my advert so, I am going to take you on a rambling journey of your lifetime
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I hope you are having a nice time. I identify as a Pan who is more inclined towards Females but at the same time I have discovered that I don't mind Males
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It's more of a connection thing for me. Getting to know a person is important to me. I am not into Instant Gratification, So, if you are looking for Instant fling It's time to stop reading and look for another advert.
I am also discovering some switch tendencies in me, so, it will be great if I can explore that.


Me, as a Human...
Well, I am 25 Homo Sapien Sapien from the Eastern side of our Planet, moving to the western side soon. (unable to change the age on post title) Before you get to know me completely I am awkward and shy as much as they come. But once you become my friend and I am comfortable with you, you will see that I am not that meek-shy person at all. I am extremely introverted and avoid all social situations If I can at all costs. Unless I am with a few selected people. I am a great listener and (if) I set my mind to something, I make it happen, though it's really hard to set my mind on something. I am a Student and same time work on projects which brings me Joy. I also enjoy Books, Tv-Shows, Movies, Games, Crafts and Conspiracy Theories. [Don't let me start on computers because I will bore you to Death]

Appearance...
Well, if things move forward, I will definitely show you how I look. But I am tomboyish, closer to earth person (not tall at all), maybe average. I like short hair but I change hairstyles faster depending on my moods. I will not say I am skinny but I am not plus-size either. I guess a middle body type.

Why BDSM...
Well, long story short. Without parental control, one can easily stumble upon the wrong websites while they are in High School. Same was the case with me... I was intrigued ever since. And after seeing/reading the control and dexterity of a BDSM relationship, I just can't find it in me to be content with Vanilla.
A sub because. Well no because. I am just wired this way, I love obeying, serving and generally making people happy. And to give and be taken by somebody and be devoted is something that fills me up with warm fuzzy feeling and happiness.
As I mentioned above I am discovering Switch tendencies but that again relates to devotion one has.

What am I looking for...
To be honest, I am looking for a Master/Mistress who can be strict and understanding. I am not just looking to take orders and perform, I would like to make a friend too. Possibly an extremely close friend because I don't think, one can be in a BDSM relationship and be a sub if there's no understanding or respect between both parties. Trust comes with time and it's completely understandable. So, probably a Master/Mistress of my dream is someone who is fun to talk with, who understands my weird brain (because honestly, I spout extreme insane shit all the time) and be patient with me. And someone, who can just be a Master/Mistress when the situations call. Obviously, then there's the serving part. If I serve, I serve by heart or I am just not completely there. I am looking for a serious relationship if that's not your cup of tea it's fine, I drink coffee anyway.

Hobbies...
Art, Gaming, I recently bought Minecraft, Streaming, Music, Reading, Collecting stuff, Sleeping like a pro - hehe. Making crafts
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Phew! Read all that...
Great if you reached this sentence. I know that was some rambling.
So, now that you have a general idea of me. If you feel like I am compatible with you and we can make it work, please feel free to contact me
Other stuff we can discuss as we move along. We will probably have a lot to discuss before there's anything concrete.

Some other Random Stuff...
Location is not a problem for me but I have found that EUROPE is the best location for me and I love color Blue. Also, I am Ravenclaw.

What to send in Private Message...
Kindly send this information in PM.
1. Are u married/wife/kids/partner/other relationships?
2. Are u looking for a serious or casual relationship?
3. How much time can u dedicate to this relationship, approx daily approx weekly?
4. Are u looking for a long term or short term relationship?
5. What's your location (continent/country)?
6. What you found most interesting about me?
7. Why do you feel like we will work?
8. Please tell me about yourself.
To contact me...
Please leave a PRIVATE MESSAGE.
I admire your detective skills in finding my Kik... But please PM! (DONT KIK)
I will give my Kik/skype on my own. MY preferred messenger is Skype (text chat).

Important Note...
- If you have read the whole advert, congratulations again! I will not entertain anyone who will ask me trivial details which have already been mentioned here... If you are really interested, read the whole advert and then message!
- Please bear in mind you will not the only one messaging and with so many bad experiences under my belt, I will take my time if you can't be patient with me don't bother messaging.
- I suffer from Mental Health Issues, Please don't waste your and my time by messaging if you don't understand the severity of it.
- If you send nude pics you are getting blocked and I have sold my soul to devil you will probably die in your sleep Japanese execution-style. So, don't fuck with me!
- Also please don't expect me to perform for you in a go, I will take my time building up trust and such.

Have a nice day/time ahead!
 

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