38/male/dom seeks any age/female/slave in any place (very detailed)

dariodragon7

Kink Talk Member
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Dominant
Jul 13, 2015
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Hello everyone! Thanks for whoever is going to take their time to read my ad!

ABOUT ME - VANILLA

Hello everyone! My name is Dario and I am a 38 years old Dom, Daddy Dom from Palermo, Italy (+1 GMT). I'm 1,77m tall, and weight about 70kg. I have short black hairs and deep green eyes. My sexual orientation is straight.

I love cats, playing videogames and watching anime, good food, swimming and reading. I have two bachelor's degrees in History and in Media&Communication. I'm usually really friendly and talkative and I enjoy texting a lot about almost every topic.

I'm straight so this ad is only aimed at girls

ABOUT ME - KINKY

Kinky wise, I've been into this lifestyle for 12 years and I've had several online and in person experiences but for the moment I plan on keeping things online only with possible future planned meetings in person if things last and we both want it.

I am Dom. As a Dom I'm strict and firm, love routine, reinforcements, rules and structure. I love molding my sub and training her to become what I like. My ideal type of D/s dynamic is one with possibly Total Power Exchange achieved through patience and trust, so starting off with light control and taking more and more over time and comfort. Trust and communication are extremely important to me and it's crucial to build them constantly. We surely won't talk 24/7 but texting everyday for at least a few hours a day is very important to me. And extremely important are also play session, and even if they will not necessarily happen everyday, I will often give daily tasks to complete and play sessions will need to happen whenever is possible. I want us to be open with each other and I want to be told if there's anything that you think needs to be adjusted in our dynamic so to make us both comfortable and happy. So I want honesty 100% of the time.

I'm also a Daddy and I really enjoy taking care of my sub, making sure she is happy and spoiled with attentions, I love to give aftercare and I am a very affectionate person. My sub doesn't have to be a little as the Daddy is just a part of me, but if you are also a little then that's totally fine.

I don't have an ideal sub. I can handle pretty much any kind of sub, experienced and inexperienced alike, I like shy subs that easily gets embarassed, but I also enjoy a sub who knows how to tease and when to take the initiative. I like a sub who is not afraid to show her body. I love a talkative person that can keep a conversation even about silly things and who has a personality and knows what she wants. Body looks and shapes don't matter to me as well as your age and physical appearence.

WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR

I'm pretty flexible when it comes to what I am specifically looking for and what I expect, but there are some things that I want and expect to happen in my dynamics and some of them are negotiable but some are not.

FIRST: One of my biggest kink is visuals, so I do love erotic and sensual photography and videos, and I love when my sub teases or pleases me with requested or surprises pictures and videos. I also love poses and dress up play so having a working camera on your phone is required and not negotiable. A webcam is welcomed but not required. Naked or underwear or clothed pictures and videos as surprises or during playtime or to provide proof of tasks will be requested and they will be saved and kept by me and they will be a must in our dynamic since it's my favorite fetish and not something I'm planning on giving up, so if you are not fine or comfortable with taking pics and videos I'm probably not what you are looking for. Of course none of your pictures and videos will ever be shared online or anywhere else and will be kept by me. This is a requirement and it is not negotiable, so if you're not fine with this you can stop reading this ad here as I will not accept compromises on this point.

SECOND: As I said I'm not interested in body shapes or character and mind traits so I'm very open on these regards. I don't have an age range of interest so as long as you are over 18 I'm fine with any age even older than me. I'm monogamous but I can easily adapt to my sub needs. This means that if my sub wants to keep an open and poly D/s dynamic that's fine by me as long as it will be two sided and both of us are aware and clear of the situation.

THIRD: Trust is extremely important to me in D/s dynamics so we would need to be open and honest with each other and not be afraid to talk any issues or worries that might come up with time. That's why, if needed, I always give my potential subs a trial period until trust is enstablished with a softer involvement and smaller playtimes and tasks during it to adapt to the schedule.

FOURTH: I expect some time of daily privacy with my sub to focus on our playtime and intimate activities. It can be 30 minutes, an hour or more and it doesn't have to be everyday, but I want to have some private time with my sub almost regularly. Also a place where to take good pictures and videos using selfies or timer on the camera would be a good plus. I highly dislike phone/voice calls in general, even with friends and family, so we will have phone calls every now and then if you like but they will not be long and not all the time and especially only if I am in the mood. If that's a turn off for you I'm really sorry but I'm probably not the right person for you.

HOW THIS WILL WORK

As soon as we start I will give my sub a set of rules adapting them to their needs. The rules will not be set in stone and they can be changed anytime accordingly to any issue or need that might come up so that they will not interfere with your life. We will discuss them together in private.

I like to assign daily tasks that can involve a wide variety of things, from pictures in particular poses or clothing to writings and such. I might set a deadline accordingly to your timezone and life duties. Obiously breaking the deadline or not completing the task will lead to a warning (unless a valid reason is given).

The dynamic I am looking for, is possibly (and hopefully) a long term one since i value the time and efforts I put into it and I don't plan on spending them with someone unsure of what they want or that don't agree with my conditions. Distance and time difference are not a problem for me, I can easily adapt my schedule and I've had many experiences with subs even with up to 9 hours of difference between us and have always handled it nicely. European timezones are definitely preferred but like I said time difference should not be an issue.

I don't want my sub to suddenly disappear unless there is a valid reason. I understand we all can be busy and have stuff to do in life and work/study and need to be gone for hours, but at least have the decency to warn me when that happens. Our first chats will happen here on the site via private messages and then we will move to a private messaging app for communication. I use Kik, Skype, Whatsapp, Telegram and Discord but I'm fine with using any other app as long as it allows to share and save pictures and videos.

KINKS AND LIMITS LIST

I'm pretty open about my kinks and I'm always willing to try new things but some of them are required and not negotable.

KINKS: Pictures and videos (required), Total Power Exchange, Posing and poses training, Teasing, Overstimulation, Breeding, Cosplay, skirts and dresses, Orgasm control and denial, Wardrobe control and dress up, Tits and nipples torture, Daily routine control, Feet play and torture, Legs, Breasts/Nipples play and torture, Clit torture, Ass and Pussy spanking, Footjobs, Clothespins, Porn control, Bladder control, Edge play, Ice cubes, Drinking control, Forced masturbation, Forced nudity, Mouth gags, Blindfold, Body writings, Writings, Kneeling, pet play, ddlg

LIMITS: Bratting, scat, vomit, illegal, family&friends, rp/erp, weapons play, blood/needle play, diapers, gore, voice calls (soft limit)

That's all I have to write about me. If you are curious and interested in what I can offer or want to know more about me, feel free to reach me in private, my private messages are open for everyone and I'll gladly reply as soon as I can. Thanks for reading my ad and hope to hear from you soon!

Have a nice day everyone!
 

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