Well.. I'm new to all this, and I'm gay.
I've recently met someone and they're interested in BDSM, before I met him, I was pretty vanilla.. I'm very open minded so I didn't mind trying new things, and I'm liking what I've tried so far.
He's a.. sub/slave, he's pretty much into anything, he constantly tells me that he has no limits.. but I'm not so sure.. anyway, since I'm new to all this, he pretty much expects me to know what to do right away, and since I don't, and I get no help from him, he always says "part of the fun is not knowing" or something along those lines, so he's pretty much no help at all.
I get frustrated because I'm kinda stuck for ideas and I know that I'm not fully satisfying him in the way that he wants to.. which is why I'm here, for help, advice, and education.
As I said, he said that he has no limits, and anything relating to BDSM, humiliation, etc.
I look forward to whatever advice you can bring my way.
I've recently met someone and they're interested in BDSM, before I met him, I was pretty vanilla.. I'm very open minded so I didn't mind trying new things, and I'm liking what I've tried so far.
He's a.. sub/slave, he's pretty much into anything, he constantly tells me that he has no limits.. but I'm not so sure.. anyway, since I'm new to all this, he pretty much expects me to know what to do right away, and since I don't, and I get no help from him, he always says "part of the fun is not knowing" or something along those lines, so he's pretty much no help at all.
I get frustrated because I'm kinda stuck for ideas and I know that I'm not fully satisfying him in the way that he wants to.. which is why I'm here, for help, advice, and education.
As I said, he said that he has no limits, and anything relating to BDSM, humiliation, etc.
I look forward to whatever advice you can bring my way.