I'm sorry to hear what happened, let's hope everything will work out as you desire.
Glad you decide to stay though, you seem like quite a lot of fun judging from the little interaction we had at least.
Big hug from me, i really hope you will have a great time here.
If you ask me, kinks are a part of who you are. A good partners shouldn't shun them, but embrace them.
That is if you've been honest about them of course, honesty and open conversation is key.
I wish you the best of luck, and lots more fun on here.
Hopefully i'l be involved in some of that fun