Dom/Switch couple looking for a female sub or switch

clearinginthewood

Kinky Newbie
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Dominant
Jun 14, 2015
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Our Bio:

I am a 22 year old college student/ U.S. Military member. I am currently taking classes in the medical field and my studies are very important to me. My hobbies include rock climbing, hiking and camping, and kayaking, which all keep me fairly fit and in shape. On the other hand I also enjoy reading, playing video games, and going out to bars with friends. As far as appearances go I am 5’11”, around 165 pounds, with hair that has been described as any variation of “kind of reddish, blondish, brown”, and very dark, almost black, eyes.
She is a 19 year old college student in an environmental studies degree. She as kind and easily makes friends, even in the weirdest places. Her hobbies include rock climbing, working out, reading poetry, and cooking/baking. She is 5'7" and around 140 pounds, with shoulder length brown hair and a septum piercing.

As a Dom/Switch couple:

I have close to 5 years of on again off again experience. This includes having subs in real life and online. I prefer long-term more meaningful relationships to simple trysts, but if I am not dedicating my time to an important sub I am happy to play short-term. She has a little experience dominating online and a few months of experience with me as her Dom in real life, as we go to the same university. She is new to Dominating, but the few experiences she has had so far she has loved, and she is quite good at it.
We are a diverse couple as our kinks are fairly open ended. I feed off of my submissive, her likes become my likes and her dislikes become punishments, and I will be teaching her to do the same. That does not mean we do have our own distinct set of kinks that will be worked in as well, as long as they are within everyone's' limits. Our control will also extends to mental aspects of a sub. We will mold you into a more perfect sub for us. We want you to be a sub we can be proud of in both your submission and your own life adventures. This does not mean we will not respect your social life. We have no interest in interfering with your personal life, unless you expressly asked for it. Our relationship will be private and self contained. And this extends both ways, mutual trust, respect, and caring for everyone involved is non-negotiable.

My expectations from you:

I expect you to truly find happiness in your submission to us. In the end this is the foundation we will build everything else upon. You should trust us to do what is best for you and that you are important to us. We should be able to carry a conversation when we are outside of scenarios, both as a group and one on one. I spend my time on a sub because I think she is worthy of me taking time out of my day to care for her, not because I need a time sink. This leads to the fact that we are doing things with our lives, we push ourselves to become better, to explore the world and do things others are afraid to try. We expect this spark in our sub. If you are complacent, or God forbid boring, I’m not sure we would be a good match. You should be smart and in at least fairly good shape to keep up with us, and we prefer younger than 25.
A relationship would begin on kik messenger with a discussion about ourselves, both in relation to a D/s relationship, but also about our interests to make sure we are a good fit for one another. Once we accept your submission we can discuss what other avenues of communication we are comfortable with as the relationship grows. We will require picture verification at the beginning. It can be clothed, as this is only to make sure you are who you claim to be, and in turn WE WILL BOTH VERIFY AS WELL. After your submission we will want pictures of you completing tasks, as well as just normal everyday pictures to share our lives and experiences. This does not mean you will just be a porn source, as you will mean more to us than that. Nor must you show your face or give up your anonymity if that is not something you are comfortable with, as your comfort in our relationship is our priority.

Why this style could be good for beginners and veteran subs:

Because we are a couple, there are a few relationship perks that we can provide that a single Dom/Domme could not. As I am already teaching her how to be a Domme, beginners can feel comfortable in a learning environment. On the other hand, veteran subs will feel comfortable with my experience, and may even enjoy seeing a Domme develop into her character. Also having a Switch in the relationship provides access to another sub to talk with and relate to on a sub level, which is healthy and I would strongly recommend, for all subs. We would also love to be involved with another Switch, as that could be a very interesting relationship dynamic, so please feel free to contact us!

Likes and limits

This list is alphabetical and by no means complete, but it should give you an overall idea

Likes

Anal, Begging, Behavior modification, Blindfold, Chastity, Clamping, Clothing control, Collars (both actual and symbolic), Deep throating, DP, Forced orgasm, Gags, Humiliating names, Ice, Kneeling, Nipple play, Oral, Orgasm control/denial, Plugs, Spanking, Total submission, Wax play

Not opposed to, but not our things

Heavy breath play, Overt public, Pet play

Limits

Anything that leaves permanent marks, Anything illegal, Catheters, Diapers, Enemas, Fake rape, Heavy water sports, Knife play, Prostitution, Scat

If you’ve made it here I assume you have some interest in what we have to offer. If so message me on here with a little about yourself and what about our ad interests you and we can go from there.
 

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