Hello everyone, I've been a long time reader of these forums and today I have a rare conundrum. As of a few months ago I started dating a submissive. This was a treat for me as I've been a switch for the majority of my sexual life. However there seems to be trouble in paradise as she is a masochist and I am not really a sexual sadist. Granted I understand that physical pain has it's place in rearing a sub, I don't get off to it. What more she's into blood play and I have a fear of penetration of the skin.
What advice can you all give me? Please not that our relationship is intimate and not strictly bdsm related, this being said I feel I'm letting her down in a sense. Her view has always been quite optimistic and cheerful, but I feel like I'm not all that could be as her dominant.
Any tips on proper blood play and handling of a masochist would be greatly appreciated as well!
Thanks,
V
What advice can you all give me? Please not that our relationship is intimate and not strictly bdsm related, this being said I feel I'm letting her down in a sense. Her view has always been quite optimistic and cheerful, but I feel like I'm not all that could be as her dominant.
Any tips on proper blood play and handling of a masochist would be greatly appreciated as well!
Thanks,
V