Hi everyone. First post! I am a 24 y/o bisexual man in the process of getting more involved in d/s play, and have done a little of both, but recently found a hot 20 y/o male submissive that approached me on an online dating site interested in a small note in my profile saying I'm "into the dom/sub scene."
It is going to be a challenge to make this relationship work but despite him being almost a complete newbie to the scene he seems well suited for the role. Slight build, loves pleasing men, naturally bottom.
The question I keep mulling over is how should I refer to him? Boy doesn't seem right because we are so close in age. It only works sometimes. Bitch/fag/slut similarly seem okay in certain situations but I won't want to use them until I'm sure he enjoys being referred to in that manner.
Right now, I have him calling me Sir or Coach as he is so new to the scene and needs plenty of training. But does anyone have some ideas as to my go-to moniker for him? There must be some other term I'm forgetting.
tl;dr what to call a similar-aged male submissive
It is going to be a challenge to make this relationship work but despite him being almost a complete newbie to the scene he seems well suited for the role. Slight build, loves pleasing men, naturally bottom.
The question I keep mulling over is how should I refer to him? Boy doesn't seem right because we are so close in age. It only works sometimes. Bitch/fag/slut similarly seem okay in certain situations but I won't want to use them until I'm sure he enjoys being referred to in that manner.
Right now, I have him calling me Sir or Coach as he is so new to the scene and needs plenty of training. But does anyone have some ideas as to my go-to moniker for him? There must be some other term I'm forgetting.
tl;dr what to call a similar-aged male submissive
