Hello everyone,
I've been lurking on here for a while, and decide it's about time i introduce myself to those interested.
I found this place when i was exploring my own kinks/desires. Most of my life i've led a pretty vanilla sex life, nothing too kinky at all. Nothing wrong with vanilla sex with the girl you love, it's great! But i found myself to be more and more curious about different types of kinks/fetishes.
I've never been able to really talk about this to any partner before unfortunatly.
For a while porn satisfied the curiosity, but as we all know it can be really over the top and ridiculous.
So i started looking more for personal stories of real couples.
The bdsm & dom/sub types relationships are really interesting for me to hear about.
I'm incredibly intruiged by how intimate these types of sessions can be.
At first glance it's just all rough and hard, but i've learned it's a roleplay about power, trust, responsability.
The idea that the person you really care about, trusts you to such an extent they completely submit to you, leaving themselves extremely vulnerable.
I think i would be more on the dominant side myself, i tend to take control naturaly in an intimate session. But i'm still trying to explore the possibilities i suppose.
So here i am, hoping to learn more from the people that actualy have all kinds of experience, and read up on some stories from the couples who like to share.
I've already had the pleasure of chatting with a few lovely people over pm, and had some online fun with some others.
Hopefully this introduction will invite some more people to pm me for a fun/interesting chat, help me learn more about all kinks out there, and find out what works for me.
I'm trying to keep an open mind.
I've been lurking on here for a while, and decide it's about time i introduce myself to those interested.
I found this place when i was exploring my own kinks/desires. Most of my life i've led a pretty vanilla sex life, nothing too kinky at all. Nothing wrong with vanilla sex with the girl you love, it's great! But i found myself to be more and more curious about different types of kinks/fetishes.
I've never been able to really talk about this to any partner before unfortunatly.
For a while porn satisfied the curiosity, but as we all know it can be really over the top and ridiculous.
So i started looking more for personal stories of real couples.
The bdsm & dom/sub types relationships are really interesting for me to hear about.
I'm incredibly intruiged by how intimate these types of sessions can be.
At first glance it's just all rough and hard, but i've learned it's a roleplay about power, trust, responsability.
The idea that the person you really care about, trusts you to such an extent they completely submit to you, leaving themselves extremely vulnerable.
I think i would be more on the dominant side myself, i tend to take control naturaly in an intimate session. But i'm still trying to explore the possibilities i suppose.
So here i am, hoping to learn more from the people that actualy have all kinds of experience, and read up on some stories from the couples who like to share.
I've already had the pleasure of chatting with a few lovely people over pm, and had some online fun with some others.
Hopefully this introduction will invite some more people to pm me for a fun/interesting chat, help me learn more about all kinks out there, and find out what works for me.
I'm trying to keep an open mind.
