Well I just want to sext with people maybe share nudes. Be of use to someone who is trying to get off or if someone is submissive then use them to get off.
Just start wading in on kink forums and soon enough you will find play buddies.
This site is nowhere as big as fetlife but has better involvement from actual people in many ways.
Ive been chatting by forums and by user pm and have had some great chats and other.
I know the temptation is there to linger in the classifieds here, but the real fun is hidden away in the actual forums.
The forums are under multi topics so just troll through ones that speak to you and meet people. The rest will happen soon enough.