26 year old submissive male seeking a 25-27 year old dominant female
To start off with, thank you for reading. Assuming most people just glance at the beginning and really don't pay much attention to the rest of the posts, here is my tl;dr intro:
I am 26, a bigger guy needing to work out, and I am going to be locking myself in chastity to motivate myself. I'm planning on using an online service for holding the lockbox code. I am new, and am looking for a mistress to play around with me, motivate me, punish me, tease me, etc. You MUST be female, as I just cannot bring myself to submit to a man voluntarily. I am also a bit sarcastic, but care about those who deserve it and who I trust.
Okay, that might be enough to let people know if the rest is worth reading. So, let us venture on down the road of yet ANOTHER man looking for a woman.
So a little bit about myself; I am 26, a male, and sitting at about 6'4", weighing about 425. Now, I know we are picturing a gross mass just sitting on his bed shoving Twinkies in his maw, but no. I am a human looking guy shoving Twinkies in my mouth. I just happen to weigh a lot, and have been trying to lose weight. So far I've done the easy part and ditched the Twinkies, but I have not been able to consistently make it to the gym. Not the end of the world, but it frustrates me that my lazy side is able to win so easily. And how are we going to overcome? Motivation.
That's where you (hopefully) come in. I need some help with motivation. I am new to all of this, so forgive my not being able to dictate exactly what I want/need/hope for, but I would picture somebody who is able to motivate and reward me, set some sort of reward/punishment system, and actually communicate with me somewhat regularly. Chastity will be in play, as I have imagined being in chastity, and I might as well use this device I ordered (coming 3/3/16, btw) In addition, I vow my honesty, picture proof (limited in what I show until trust is built, ie no face at first) and pretty much doing anything non-financial we have agreed on being ok with in the beginning.
I also want this special lady to be a friend. She will be the most important person to me that I don't ever meet face to face. I do still have a life to live, school to attend, a job to keep, friends to keep, and maybe some ladies to talk to. OMG, did I mention things pertaining to a personal life? Yeah, I said honesty, so here's this; I am a social, outgoing person. I meet with people day to day, interact, etc. I will not sit here and type that I will sit in my room 24/7 waiting for you to check up on me. I am not currently in a relationship, nor have I been sexually active for a few years (hooray...) but I am not here saying that I will cut off living a life for somebody I may never meet.
So yeah, I know, a lot of rambling, a lot of shit here and there, but the basics are I am human, you are hopefully human and even more hopefully a real woman. So if you think that we could talk and work something out, go ahead and message me, titling the message, oh, idc, something witty. Not because I'm expecting mountains of messages, but because I like wit. So come on ladies, let's try and make a deal or something.
To start off with, thank you for reading. Assuming most people just glance at the beginning and really don't pay much attention to the rest of the posts, here is my tl;dr intro:
I am 26, a bigger guy needing to work out, and I am going to be locking myself in chastity to motivate myself. I'm planning on using an online service for holding the lockbox code. I am new, and am looking for a mistress to play around with me, motivate me, punish me, tease me, etc. You MUST be female, as I just cannot bring myself to submit to a man voluntarily. I am also a bit sarcastic, but care about those who deserve it and who I trust.
Okay, that might be enough to let people know if the rest is worth reading. So, let us venture on down the road of yet ANOTHER man looking for a woman.
So a little bit about myself; I am 26, a male, and sitting at about 6'4", weighing about 425. Now, I know we are picturing a gross mass just sitting on his bed shoving Twinkies in his maw, but no. I am a human looking guy shoving Twinkies in my mouth. I just happen to weigh a lot, and have been trying to lose weight. So far I've done the easy part and ditched the Twinkies, but I have not been able to consistently make it to the gym. Not the end of the world, but it frustrates me that my lazy side is able to win so easily. And how are we going to overcome? Motivation.
That's where you (hopefully) come in. I need some help with motivation. I am new to all of this, so forgive my not being able to dictate exactly what I want/need/hope for, but I would picture somebody who is able to motivate and reward me, set some sort of reward/punishment system, and actually communicate with me somewhat regularly. Chastity will be in play, as I have imagined being in chastity, and I might as well use this device I ordered (coming 3/3/16, btw) In addition, I vow my honesty, picture proof (limited in what I show until trust is built, ie no face at first) and pretty much doing anything non-financial we have agreed on being ok with in the beginning.
I also want this special lady to be a friend. She will be the most important person to me that I don't ever meet face to face. I do still have a life to live, school to attend, a job to keep, friends to keep, and maybe some ladies to talk to. OMG, did I mention things pertaining to a personal life? Yeah, I said honesty, so here's this; I am a social, outgoing person. I meet with people day to day, interact, etc. I will not sit here and type that I will sit in my room 24/7 waiting for you to check up on me. I am not currently in a relationship, nor have I been sexually active for a few years (hooray...) but I am not here saying that I will cut off living a life for somebody I may never meet.
So yeah, I know, a lot of rambling, a lot of shit here and there, but the basics are I am human, you are hopefully human and even more hopefully a real woman. So if you think that we could talk and work something out, go ahead and message me, titling the message, oh, idc, something witty. Not because I'm expecting mountains of messages, but because I like wit. So come on ladies, let's try and make a deal or something.
- Kinks:
femdom, chastity, anal, bondage, tease and denial, strapon, communication, honesty
- Experience:
Nothing really. I've done some research, even non-pornographic. Just haven't met somebody willing to help me, local or no.
- Limits:
blood, pain, cutting, dishonesty, unwilling to take pictures or video chat, no ball crushing
