I am specifically looking for advice from a married D/s couple because my wife is my submissive pet. We have been married for over 14 years and I can honestly say that know her well. We have always had a somewhat open relationship and are not in the early stages of 24/7 D/s training.
Since we have been married for so long, I know all of her strengths and weaknesses. This is a fantastic tool in training because I do not need to learn these things, I know it. I also know the few things that are super super upsetting to her. Today a conversation with a family member caused her to get extremely upset. I know it is a very bad topic so I found myself comforting her as husband. I called her down when she began to take her emotions out on me and she swiftly apologized, but I still found myself wanting to console her and take away her hurt, even though she just got loud with me.
Is this common with married D/s relationships? Is it acceptable to overlook minor amounts of insubordination when you know she is legitimately upset? Is there a way to punish the outburst while still being comforting? These are just a few questions today. I would love to meet a couple or some couples so I have people to ask specific questions that I can't always find in books.
Thank you in advance,
Wayneh
Since we have been married for so long, I know all of her strengths and weaknesses. This is a fantastic tool in training because I do not need to learn these things, I know it. I also know the few things that are super super upsetting to her. Today a conversation with a family member caused her to get extremely upset. I know it is a very bad topic so I found myself comforting her as husband. I called her down when she began to take her emotions out on me and she swiftly apologized, but I still found myself wanting to console her and take away her hurt, even though she just got loud with me.
Is this common with married D/s relationships? Is it acceptable to overlook minor amounts of insubordination when you know she is legitimately upset? Is there a way to punish the outburst while still being comforting? These are just a few questions today. I would love to meet a couple or some couples so I have people to ask specific questions that I can't always find in books.
Thank you in advance,
Wayneh