no safe word

[easydave30]

Hi I'm just looking for people's options

I am thinking about asking my mistress (Mistress Violator in Sheffield) for a no safe word session and letting her do what she wants to me. This is because I really want to suffer and I in the past have been a bit of a wuss and used my safe word to wimp out.

I really have a desire to be help less and have no control over what's happening to me

I would like to know your thoughts on this have any of you done this and was it a good or bad idea

Thanks

 

[Sanpow89]

i think no safe word is always a bad idea. If you used it to often you should talk with your mistress about it - maybe she's going to hard? If anything happens in your life that influences you, you maybe need to go easyer?
And if you made a session without using your safe-word she can go harder with the next session again.

 

[firemaster]

talk to her and tell her what u want and agree on what will happen then do no safe word

 

[easydave30]

Hi thanks for your replays I think I will sleek to her and try and agree something. I do take your point about her taking it harder but this is what I want as I am always disappointed with my self after a session I want to be made to suffer I want to be helpless I know I can take the physical pain I'm just a wimp in my head. Firemaster do you have any advise how I should approach this

 

[misslavinia]

Hi I'm just looking for people's options

I am thinking about asking my mistress (Mistress Violator in Sheffield) for a no safe word session and letting her do what she wants to me. This is because I really want to suffer and I in the past have been a bit of a wuss and used my safe word to wimp out.

I really have a desire to be help less and have no control over what's happening to me

I would like to know your thoughts on this have any of you done this and was it a good or bad idea

Thanks

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[JulieKEames]

Try using a progression of safe words. The first means "Please take a break, but don't stop yet", while the next can mean "I really want to wimp out, but please don't let me yet". Finally keep one in reserve that means "STOP NOW!"

I suggest that you work up through these, so you can't just jump to the last one, although maybe you can arrange to skip 1 level. This still provides you with an out should you feel totally trapped and helpless. It is all about communication.

I only propose this since you seem to feel like you could have gone farther once you stop.