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x1x

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I would like to know your openion. Do you think that most BDSM slave master/mistress...etc websites online are only Porn?
 

SubMissChievous

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Depends what you search for... but I can tell from my experience that most porn you'll find too often have not much to do with reality. It may work for some for fantasy purposes but you won't learn much about techniques, safety measures, aftercare, and about a hundred of important things there :p

Like I said it really depends what someone is searching. Each type of sites, be it porn, resources, forums and social networks serve their own purposes :)
 

Dior

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I can second Chloes post. If you only considering visually attractive BDSM sites, you may be right, but as already mentioned, there are many blogs, forums, etc. that contain valuable informations. And which I found very useful ;)
 

boundperil

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This is my rule, anything I have to pay for is entertainment. Plenty of people out there who will share info if asked, they just don't know where to go with things.

I started a blog with my new sub, I'm not going into the hows to do things, if someone asks, I will be more then happy to explain. It is just a lot to write out and would take away from the lure of the writing.

Plus, I don't believe there is one set of rules for all of us. We all do things at our own pace, and in our own way. As long as things are done safely, it will work out.
 

TensionRoom101

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There are a lot that are porn, for sure. On top of that, there are a lot that are pro-Domme (seldom pro Dom) sites too that pander to a certain demographic, and they too have their place.

There are a lot though that are community sites on which you can learn much and network too. Sites like this one will hopefully flourish and realise its full potential, but the daddy of them these days is Fetlife. In the past it was Collarme, before that bondage.com. Alt was good a few years ago but just became a paysite.

If you're in the UK you could do worse than check out informedconsent, and there may well be a site for your local munch or fet/BDSM club too if you search it out.

Mike
 

Leopard

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I would like to know your openion. Do you think that most BDSM slave master/mistress...etc websites online are only Porn?

No, I don't think they are only porn. I think that there are porn sites that cater to kinks, and kink sites blogs etc. with lots of porn. But there are just as many resource, discussion and social networking kink sites these days.
 

peterpmb12

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Hi

I like the site www.one44.net as it is like "Fetlife" but offers so much more and has all the things people are begging for on Fet.
A FREE BDSM social website set.. The site offers easy three step sign up.
1 Search facility
2 Full privacy settings all through the site sections
3 Groups
4 Chat room
5 Private IM chat
6 Video chat
7 Seeing friends on line
8 Forum
9 Blogs
10 Mobile theme
11 Hard Limits under profile
Looking for volunteers to lurk in the chat room and get it active.
To have a look www.one44.net and search South Africa under search.
 

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