I probably "played with" 50 different people in the span of 3-4 months, learning new things each time, but not finding something that's more than a few texts before i realy clicked with someone. There are horny girls looking for a quick spank or hot chats to masturbate to aswell as horny guys.
if I were to guess, there are more female subs than male subs, but they are less vocal because of the sheer flood of horny guys.
I would even say there are more female subs than actual male doms, im not speaking about "youbettercallmesir's" but rather people like phanteven and some other guys on here.
Female doms are rare, and good ones even more. That's a fact, deal with it and advertise yourself better than everybody else if you want to find someone (I have seen like 3 accounts active on here that I would consider a real mistress)
I can only tell you what I'm looking for, not what others search, but it can point you in the rigth durection:
Write full sentences, the dom wants fun aswell, being able to articulate yourself helps.
Be descriptive, just saying "i want a dom to control me" gets you nowhere, write down how you imagine the dynamic to play out.
For a reference, my current playmate wrote about 15min on her response on what she hopes for, and we spent the first day just talking sbout excpectations.
posting "no limits" sounds like: i have no idea how play could go... everyone has limits, even John Mc Affee.
Be a reasonable adult about everything and not a spite/revengeful baby should it not go your way.
Cheers and have fun.
