What was you first time like?

[MistressHarper]

I want to know about your first experience with BDSM. How did you discover the world of kink, what was it like for you... basically, all the details!

I found kink in college; I was a really sheltered young thing, and one of my friends, much more adventurous than I, discovered a local kinky group that had a meetup. She also knew to not go alone, and talked me into going. She sent me a spreadsheet with this huge list of kinks and fetishes, with 'yes', 'no', 'hard limit', 'soft limit'... and my mind was just blow away!

The first munch, some dude tried to pull my hair to see if I was submissive, and I pulled back and gave him the stinkeye, and that was that. lol!

The first party? I remember sitting and watching an impact scene, and analyzing exactly how to use a flogger, how to restrain a sub, how to move with the beat of the music. I just knew I was going to do that, and it was going to be awesome. I was going to learn exactly how to play a human being like a lute.

Now, your turn!

xoxo!
Harper

 

[tonny]

first time

my first time with bdsm was with a girlfriend, we had regular sex a lot of times, and one night she showed me a pair of handcuffs , i got intrigued by them, (i didnt know i was a sub at the time) , and i remembered some porn when the girl is handcuffed ,when i reach to grab them she pulled back took my hand and place it on her breast and we start making out. when suddenly she handcuffed my right wrist and i didnt care turned me around and got the other wrist. she pushed me gently to the bed,played with my nipps (thing that i loved and now im really in to nipple play and pain) jerked me off. made turn over my stomach and put a rolled towel under me and pulled it up and push my head down so i was ass up, she gave me my first rimjob ever i moan and twitch like crazy. she said to me: "do u like it?" and i said with wiry voice: "yes .. i like it"
she stud up and went to her closet (i couldn't see her but i heard the closet door opening). i felt a really thick lube going down my buttcheeks , she whispered : "get ready big boy, because you are going to love this"
she use the tip of a vibrator in my asshole with one hand while she was pushing between my shoulder-blades to keep me down. and i loved it, i moaned like a virgin .
after some time (i dont really know i was in a tipe of trance by all this new feelings)i came twice, she made me lick it of her hand and kissed me.


i hope imade a good job telling my story, ive never wrote anything like it before and yes its 100% true

 

[FetishandpainCPL]

I read a book almost 8 years ago and liked what I read looked online for a playpartner, found it and started very very light and continued

 

[MistressHarper]

Holy hell Tonny!!! That must have been such an amazing and intense first time!!! I love it. I can just see you with your ass in the air, moaning and begging for it. <3

my first time with bdsm was with a girlfriend, we had regular sex a lot of times, and one night she showed me a pair of handcuffs , i got intrigued by them, (i didnt know i was a sub at the time) , and i remembered some porn when the girl is handcuffed ,when i reach to grab them she pulled back took my hand and place it on her breast and we start making out. when suddenly she handcuffed my right wrist and i didnt care turned me around and got the other wrist. she pushed me gently to the bed,played with my nipps (thing that i loved and now im really in to nipple play and pain) jerked me off. made turn over my stomach and put a rolled towel under me and pulled it up and push my head down so i was ass up, she gave me my first rimjob ever i moan and twitch like crazy. she said to me: "do u like it?" and i said with wiry voice: "yes .. i like it"
she stud up and went to her closet (i couldn't see her but i heard the closet door opening). i felt a really thick lube going down my buttcheeks , she whispered : "get ready big boy, because you are going to love this"
she use the tip of a vibrator in my asshole with one hand while she was pushing between my shoulder-blades to keep me down. and i loved it, i moaned like a virgin .
after some time (i dont really know i was in a tipe of trance by all this new feelings)i came twice, she made me lick it of her hand and kissed me.


i hope imade a good job telling my story, ive never wrote anything like it before and yes its 100% true

 

[MistressHarper]

I bet that's how it starts for a lot of people, to be honest.

I know one of my friends told me that she got interested in kink, but didn't know that real people did these things, because she read about some kinky shit in a book. The Sleeping Beauty series by Anne Roquolaure (Anne Rice!) was the set that got her turned on and wanting, but it wasn't for years later that she found out it was a real thing.

I read a book almost 8 years ago and liked what I read looked online for a playpartner, found it and started very very light and continued

 

[Rafidflow]

My first experience with bdsm....wow lol.

I was just turning 18, and for my birthday my girlfriend went put and bought this really sexy putfit, a dildo (for her), and a buunch of different tingly/warming/desensitized sprays and lubes. So when she get home, we start out kind of normal, just making out and whatnot, we started intercourse, and she slid a finger in my arse. I was a little iffy about it, bit eventually she talked me into prostate massage (once) I guess ever since then ive been into the more kinky stuff.

I realized I was submissive just through normal sex, I always wanted my woman on top and in charge lol...


Guess thats it

Still looking for a mistress btw

 

[tonny]

Holy hell Tonny!!! That must have been such an amazing and intense first time!!! I love it. I can just see you with your ass in the air, moaning and begging for it. <3

I'm glad you like it, because I really did. I hope we can share more stories and whatnot <3

 

[MistressHarper]

A nice, slow, gradual awakening. I like that! Sometimes people realize they're kinky as shit when their lover does something unexpected, but sometimes you just realize it slowly, over time.

So, you started with a finger in your ass... have you gotten more into ass play since then?

My first experience with bdsm....wow lol.

I was just turning 18, and for my birthday my girlfriend went put and bought this really sexy putfit, a dildo (for her), and a buunch of different tingly/warming/desensitized sprays and lubes. So when she get home, we start out kind of normal, just making out and whatnot, we started intercourse, and she slid a finger in my arse. I was a little iffy about it, bit eventually she talked me into prostate massage (once) I guess ever since then ive been into the more kinky stuff.

I realized I was submissive just through normal sex, I always wanted my woman on top and in charge lol...


Guess thats it

Still looking for a mistress btw