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    Is the site activity slowing further?

    I do see some young people on here but it is mostly in like the personals section and that type of thing and I never really go there cause it isn’t what I come here for. I also think it can be hard because the language here feels a bit older because it tends to be more formal than people my age...
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    Is the site activity slowing further?

    Oh also the spamming of my inbox with ‘’do you have kik’’ Every time I come on here is super off putting.
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    Denial and control diary

    No I don’t. Get dare is kind of not fun anymore for me.
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    Is the site activity slowing further?

    This is something I have noticed and is in part why I have hardly been on here. For one thing I find the users who are here more regularly don’t seem to be close to age with me which is ok for the most part and helpful when I am learning about things but sometimes means I feel a little out of...
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    Denial and control diary

    No I don’t have anyone at the moment. I feel conflicted about that because with my current life I don’t have enough time to dedicate to an actual dom sub arrangement, I wouldn’t be able to regularly communicate which would be unfair to the other person.
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    Denial and control diary

    I have been trying to think about ways to do denial without having to have a regular schedule and I thought maybe instead of finding a set way to touch making a rule that I can only touch with permission so limiting my ability to touch...
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    Denial and control diary

    So yet again life seems to be determined to leave me with no free time I am hoping this week will be ok. I am finding it hard though to find tasks that I enjoy and are able to be done is short amounts of time. I get bored very easily and if I have been doing one thing too long or have done it...
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    Why do people do this?

    This is very true I guess the internet also has that non human feel because you aren’t physically next to the person but it is still frustrating that people are not considerate of others online.
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    Why do people do this?

    That’s true people assume submissive is synonymous with doormat which is wrong and super frustrating I suppose the only real option online is to ignore.
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    Why do people do this?

    The miscommunication isn’t because of being male or female also this kind of makes no sense and I never said you did do that.... but I am not looking for a fight so I am going to agree to disagree with you and of course you can respond how you wish but I won’t be responding back to you.
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    Why do people do this?

    I am not sure I agree I think there is a level of respect that doesn’t seem to be there. Yes I get it guys and girls can be different but I don’t think it is that simple. It seems like the people sending these messages feel that they have the right to bother someone simply because it is a kink...
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    Why do people do this?

    I have been away for a while but I post one thing literally one thing and I get a bunch of messages asking for my kik or Snapchat from people I have never interacted with before. Why? Do people think this is flattering to women to be ‘noticed’? Cause it isn’t, the first thing I think when I get...
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    Denial and control diary

    Well hi everyone. It has been ages. I am finally not going to be busy for a while so for the next month or maybe longer depending on how it goes I have been challenged to humping only and at least 5 edges per day. Obviously no cumming. Hopefully I can handle it after not doing denial for a while.
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    Do post millennial's find kinky normal?

    Hmmm i would say things like cumming on someones face and chest and that sort of thing isnt really considered wierd. Handcuffs also arent considered that wierd either. And also games like truth or dare can be much more sexual these days actually most of the time they get sexual if it is at a...
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    Denial and control diary

    Hi all it has been a while but i have just under a week where i have some time to do some tasks so hopefully i can have some fun.
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    Is it an expectation that a female sub will do/want oral sex?

    I suppose i could look into it more.
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    Is it an expectation that a female sub will do/want oral sex?

    It is not so much a fear... i mean parts of it are fear related but some of it is just that is grosses me out.... either way a problem.
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    Is it an expectation that a female sub will do/want oral sex?

    I am fine with honest opinions i wouldnt ask if i didnt want one lol. I would of course tell them from the start i am not one to want to waste my time or theirs. As for my peer group i think it is still something most people would expect.... idk the idea just makes me so uncomfortable and like...
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    Is it an expectation that a female sub will do/want oral sex?

    Hmmm this is tricky i understand many people enjoy it but the idea is such a huge turn off for me that it would instantly kill the mood on my end. But i also wouldnt want to have someone not do something they wanted to.... i suppose how likely is it that i guy wouldnt care/not want it themselves?
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    Is it an expectation that a female sub will do/want oral sex?

    Is this something that a dom would expect from a sub? And to clarify I consider this question to apply both ways. So for example would a dom except that a sub would give them oral sex and would also recieve oral sex from the dom? I am asking because i personally hate the idea of giving and...