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hI all, I just wanted to know where I can buy plus sized clothing, or "younger looking ddlg style clothing" the guy I have a relationship with said that he likes. He said that he likes " younger" looking clothing but hasn't specified what type clothing that he likes even though I have asked him...

I always make it clear that I have issues due to previous abuse, I also make it clear what I do or don't like etc. He kept trying to encourage me to masturbate, or have sex, I'm not obsessed with sex There is someone I like he is 35 and I am 31 the only problem is distance, we both want the same...

This is an example: I am a member of ddlgforum.com there was a guy I was talking to, all he ever said about was sex, how I should masturbate correctly, when I am sexually repressed, and have issues with sex/men due to abuse. so how am in the wrong for feeling uncomfortable when that is all he...

How do I know if a daddy dom (or any type of daddy dom) if trustworthy online or in person? Men brag about having a slave, subs, fuck buddy but this doesn't tell me how experienced they are with kink in general. Obviously any man/woman could lie about being experienced online or in person or...

I'm not everyone's sub, little. I'm not a whore either. I know what type of relationship that I want, the roles I fit and I will go after what I want.

Already know what I want.

Self harming has always been about feeling relief, a way to punish myself and for control, it is a coping mechanism for me. It has never been about getting attention even a minority of people would do it for attention unfortunately. I am submissive and a masochist and a little and I will only...

Hi all, I wanted to know if it is normal that a daddy dom, general dom/master to be a sadist as well? I have had a few long distance relationships that were online and the guy is a daddy dom and a sadist and it was a ddlg relationship. They were caring, sweet and supportive but also sadistic...

Okay thanks, I understand.

I can't wear makeup yet because it can cause an infection in my piercings, so I am not risking getting a infection in my piercings just to look a little bit better with make-up :/

So I am a fat, ugly bitch? According to some dumb noob called Hoemaster.. STFU!

Hey, just wondering if it is worth joining a vanilla dating websites like okcupid/plenty of fish when I am into kink? Not interested in one night stands, fuck buddy/friends with benefits situations, or open relationships, I am monogamous only. I did have a account on fetlife, whiplr, okcupid...

Hey I'm Carly, I'm shy but a submissive, masochist and little.

Both. There is no munches in the small town I live in, or they would probably be elitist and only accept attractive people. I am currently unemployed, don't drive and can't afford to travel due to living in poverty. There is no kink scene here at all!

Hi, there isn't really any option for friendship in the kink community either online or in real life. Since I am a submissive, masochisf, little it would be nice to have friends that are similar. I am quite lonely and feel isolated due to a lack of kink/alternative scene where I live. It would...

Okay thank you. Sorry I didn't know there was a already a thread for that.

Hi I wanted to know if it is acceptable to be into kink but overweight, if there possibly any risks? I have non alcoholic fatty liver, gouty arthritis and muscular cramp which would improve if I lose weight, but one of the symptoms of a fatty liver is the inability to lose weight. Would a daddy...

Hi I just wanted to know how to safety engage in wax play, flogging and spanking, aftercare needed and anything else I might need to know? For flogging is it safe to use a cat i'm nine tails, riding crop, a whip? I don't know much about wax play, I know that spanking is a sensual thing, but a...

Okay I understand. Not sure how I would gain experience with kink if no one will ever commit to me though :/

I am naive, sweet, innocent and men have been abusive to me in various ways, my dad hasn't been in my life but that isn't why I like kink/bdsm. I do have a lack of experience with dating in general and sex, never had kinky sex since I have never had a boyfriend except men online. Are men just...