Are people involved in kink using vanilla websites/is it even worth joining?

Vampiric_Lust

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Hey, just wondering if it is worth joining a vanilla dating websites like okcupid/plenty of fish when I am into kink?
Not interested in one night stands, fuck buddy/friends with benefits situations, or open relationships, I am monogamous only.
I did have a account on fetlife, whiplr, okcupid and plenty of fish previously but deleted them.
 

Hoemaster

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Destruction

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She may be ugly and fat for you, but there is place for every person in the world, she maybe the crash of someone you never know :D. Shouldn't insult someone just by your opinion.
 

Doctor Pervert

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Sorry about the moron and his insults, you will note he has been banned.

In answer to your question, no, the biggest issue with meeting people through vanilla sites when you want a kinky relationship is that it is difficult if not impossible to introduce the topic.
Far better to stick with kinky sites, despite their much lower numbers at least you already know they are kinky (maybe not your kinky) and the kinky questions will at least be expected.
 

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