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hI all, I just wanted to know where I can buy plus sized clothing, or "younger looking ddlg style clothing" the guy I have a relationship with said that he likes. He said that he likes " younger" looking clothing but hasn't specified what type clothing that he likes even though I have asked him...

How do I know if a daddy dom (or any type of daddy dom) if trustworthy online or in person? Men brag about having a slave, subs, fuck buddy but this doesn't tell me how experienced they are with kink in general. Obviously any man/woman could lie about being experienced online or in person or...

Hi all, I wanted to know if it is normal that a daddy dom, general dom/master to be a sadist as well? I have had a few long distance relationships that were online and the guy is a daddy dom and a sadist and it was a ddlg relationship. They were caring, sweet and supportive but also sadistic...

Hey, just wondering if it is worth joining a vanilla dating websites like okcupid/plenty of fish when I am into kink? Not interested in one night stands, fuck buddy/friends with benefits situations, or open relationships, I am monogamous only. I did have a account on fetlife, whiplr, okcupid...

Hi, there isn't really any option for friendship in the kink community either online or in real life. Since I am a submissive, masochisf, little it would be nice to have friends that are similar. I am quite lonely and feel isolated due to a lack of kink/alternative scene where I live. It would...

Hi I wanted to know if it is acceptable to be into kink but overweight, if there possibly any risks? I have non alcoholic fatty liver, gouty arthritis and muscular cramp which would improve if I lose weight, but one of the symptoms of a fatty liver is the inability to lose weight. Would a daddy...

Hi I just wanted to know how to safety engage in wax play, flogging and spanking, aftercare needed and anything else I might need to know? For flogging is it safe to use a cat i'm nine tails, riding crop, a whip? I don't know much about wax play, I know that spanking is a sensual thing, but a...

Hi, I am a submissive, masochist and little. I wanted to know what are some red flags for fake daddy doms or narcissistic/passive aggressive, possessive/obsessive, abusive daddy doms/doms in general?a I have had a few online long distance relationships that were ddlg and they failed, I feel like...

Hi I just wanted to know how do you know if something you like that is sexual or involves kink in some way is a fetish/kink? For example I like it if men speak foreign languages, wear a mask, call me degrading names (slut, daddy's slut due to being into ddlg) and then comfort me and treat me...

Hi all, I am new to this website and kink in general so wanted advise about particular kinks/fetishes. I am into choking, knifeplay, bloodplay, biting (otherwise known as vampirism) How do you engage in slightly dangerous kink without causing any infection due to the type of kink I am into? Is...