Hello everyone! I'm back in the market after two years and half of relationship with my last sub so I'd rather put here my introduction hoping to be back in business with a new adventure! Hoping this long intro doesen't tire or bore you!
Hello everyone! My name is Dario and I am a 35 years old Dom from Palermo, Italy (+1 GMT). I'm 1,77m tall, and weight about 65kg. I have short black straight hairs and deep greenish eyes. My sexual orientation is straight.
I'm a geeky guy who loves playing videogames and watching anime, swimming and going to the beach. I'm graduated in history and italian literature and my goal in life is to work in schools or museums. I am a cat person and even though I have none right now I plan to have many pets one day. I really enjoy food and eating and I am always open to trying new dishes from many different cultures (but I don't like extra spicy foods) I'm also learning how to be a better cook. I'm a really friendly and talkative person and I enjoy chatting a lot and about everything even though in person I am still a bit shy.
Kinky wise, I've been into this lifestyle for over ten years and I had several online and in person experiences but for the moment I plan on keeping things strictly online only (with possible future planned trips to meet in person if both parties agree and are comfortable with it).
I identify as a Dom. my biggest interests are erotic and sensual photography and videos, clothes and underwear control, daily routine, tasks and rules, orgasm control/denial. I'm open to try new fetishes and kinks so feel free to suggest me anything if there's something you really want to try.
I'm also a Daddy Dom but it's still a new side of me I am still exploring so I might be still a bit inexperienced but I really enjoy taking care of my sub, I love aftercare and I am caring, loving and very affectionate, so all littles are welcome too! I just ask for patience and lots of support, this is kinda new to me but I need and want to learn and be an amazing Daddy Dom!
I don't have an ideal sub. I can handle pretty much any kind of sub, experienced and inexperienced alike, I like shy subs that easily gets embarassed (embarassing plays are some of my favorite kinks), but I also enjoy a sub who knows how to tease and when to take the initiative. I like a sub who is not afraid to show her body. I love talkative subs that can keep up a conversation, who are smart and have a strong personality and a strong will, that knows what they want. Body looks and shapes don't matter to me, everything is fine and physical appearences are not really something important to me. I'm not a fan or ropes, I prefer other kind of restrains so I would like to avoid rope play and only stick to something softer like scarf bondage.
Now, even though I'm pretty flexible when it comes to what I am specifically looking for, there are some things that I want to happen in my ideal D/s dynamic. Some of them are negotiable, some are not.
FIRST: As I said I'm not interested in a particular body shape or character/mind traits so I'm very open on these regards. I don't have an age range of interest which goes from 18 to around 60 years old. I'm straight so this ad is only intended for girls. I'm generally monogamous but I'm easy to adapt to my sub needs so if my sub wants to keep an open D/s relationship that's fine by me as long as both parties are aware and clear on the situation. Generally I will not accept married subs unless the partner is aware and agrees to the situation. You will be my top priority and so I would generally like to be a priority for you as well. I've had a few experiences with couples, so these situations are fine too as long as the woman is submissive to me and with everyones agreement and comfort on what's happening.
SECOND: I really love erotic and sensual photography and I love when my sub teases or pleases me with requested or unrequested pictures and videos, I also love poses and dress up play so having a working camera (and possibly but not necessarily a webcam) is requested and not negotiable. Naked or underwear or clothed pictures and videos as surprises or during playtime or to provide proofs will be requested (and saved and kept by me) and they will be a must have in our dynamic since it's my main fetish, so if you are not fine or comfortable with taking pics and videos I'm probably not what you are looking for. I'm aware of all the issues coming with this kind of fetish so pictures and videos are not necessarily happening right away upon trust is built and of course face in pics and videos is appreciated but will not be enforced and is not necessary. Of course none of your pictures and videos will ever be shared online or anywhere else (unless exhibitionism or exposure is agreed accordingly from both sides inside the dynamic).
THIRD: Trust is extremely important to me in D/s dynamics so we would need to be open to each other and not be afraid to talk any issues or worries that might come up with time. That's why, if needed, I always give my potential subs to have a trial period until comfort is enstablished and enough trust is built, with a softer involvement and smaller playtimes during it to adapt to the schedule since I'm aware that trust can't be achieved over a day or two, so I'm totally fine in us taking our time to better know each other before starting to see if the relationship can work.
FOURTH: I expect some time of daily privacy with my sub to focus on our playtime and intimate activities. It can be 30 minutes, an hour or more and it doesen't really need to be everyday but I want to have some private time with my sub. Also a place where to take good pictures and videos using selfies or timer on the camera would be a good plus but it's not necessary. This point is not negotiable if you don't have some free time during the day or at least a few days during the week to dedicate then this is probably not what you're looking for.
FIFTH: I really enjoy control and rules. I am heavily into total power exchange, but I know that it's hard to achieve, especially when there is some time difference and distance, so I am fine with less control too, but there are a couple of things that I will want to take complete control. We will discuss them in private and depending on your lifestyle we'll agree about what degree of control and which things I will control. This point is not negotiable
I don't have a fixed set of rules and I prefer to adapt to every person and situation. The rules will not be set in stone and they can be changed anytime accordingly to any issue or need that might come up so that they will not interfere with any important aspect of your life. We will discuss them together in private once things start going. Naturally, breaking a rule once or twice won't result in a punishment but most likely in a warning, while punishments will happen if they a certain number of warnings are given. Of course punishments will never involve any of your limits
I like to assign daily tasks that can involve a wide variety of things, from pictures in particular poses or clothing to writings and such. I might set a deadline accordingly to your timezone, and breaking it or not completing the task will lead to a warning (unless a valid reason is given) and multiple warnings might lead to a punishment
The relationship I am looking for, is possibly (and hopefully) a long term one since i value my time and efforts a lot and I don't plan on spending them with people unsure of what they want or that don't agree with my terms. Distance and time difference are not a problem for me, I can easily adapt my schedule to mostly any GMT and location and I've had already many experiences with subs with up to 9 hours of time difference between us and have always handled it nicely. A preferred location is through Europe but any place is fine (my last sub was from Canada). Meetings might be a possibility with the right person and the desire from both, and I'm willing to be the one coming over, but only after some time have passed and only with serious and determined people.
While we can all be busy and have things to do in our lives and might need to be gone for hours or even days, which is totally fine, I want to be warned in advance if this happens since I don't like people disappearing on me or being left on read for hours without a warning. So I kindly ask to not suddenly disappear unless there is a valid reason. Our first chats will happen here on the site, but after the first convrsations we will shortly move over private messaging apps for communication like Kik, Skype, Whatsapp, Hangout, Telegram or any other app you use for texting, as long as it allows pictures and videos exchange.
Well I guess that's all I have to write about me. If you are curious and interested in what i have to offer or want to know more about me, feel free to reach me in private, my dms are open to everyone and I'll gladly reply as soon as possible. I thank all of you for making it this far on this ad and taking your time to read everything. Hope to hear from you soon!
Have a nice day and lots of love to everyone!
ABOUT ME - VANILLA
Hello everyone! My name is Dario and I am a 35 years old Dom from Palermo, Italy (+1 GMT). I'm 1,77m tall, and weight about 65kg. I have short black straight hairs and deep greenish eyes. My sexual orientation is straight.
I'm a geeky guy who loves playing videogames and watching anime, swimming and going to the beach. I'm graduated in history and italian literature and my goal in life is to work in schools or museums. I am a cat person and even though I have none right now I plan to have many pets one day. I really enjoy food and eating and I am always open to trying new dishes from many different cultures (but I don't like extra spicy foods) I'm also learning how to be a better cook. I'm a really friendly and talkative person and I enjoy chatting a lot and about everything even though in person I am still a bit shy.
ABOUT ME - KINKY
Kinky wise, I've been into this lifestyle for over ten years and I had several online and in person experiences but for the moment I plan on keeping things strictly online only (with possible future planned trips to meet in person if both parties agree and are comfortable with it).
I identify as a Dom. my biggest interests are erotic and sensual photography and videos, clothes and underwear control, daily routine, tasks and rules, orgasm control/denial. I'm open to try new fetishes and kinks so feel free to suggest me anything if there's something you really want to try.
I'm also a Daddy Dom but it's still a new side of me I am still exploring so I might be still a bit inexperienced but I really enjoy taking care of my sub, I love aftercare and I am caring, loving and very affectionate, so all littles are welcome too! I just ask for patience and lots of support, this is kinda new to me but I need and want to learn and be an amazing Daddy Dom!
I don't have an ideal sub. I can handle pretty much any kind of sub, experienced and inexperienced alike, I like shy subs that easily gets embarassed (embarassing plays are some of my favorite kinks), but I also enjoy a sub who knows how to tease and when to take the initiative. I like a sub who is not afraid to show her body. I love talkative subs that can keep up a conversation, who are smart and have a strong personality and a strong will, that knows what they want. Body looks and shapes don't matter to me, everything is fine and physical appearences are not really something important to me. I'm not a fan or ropes, I prefer other kind of restrains so I would like to avoid rope play and only stick to something softer like scarf bondage.
WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR
Now, even though I'm pretty flexible when it comes to what I am specifically looking for, there are some things that I want to happen in my ideal D/s dynamic. Some of them are negotiable, some are not.
FIRST: As I said I'm not interested in a particular body shape or character/mind traits so I'm very open on these regards. I don't have an age range of interest which goes from 18 to around 60 years old. I'm straight so this ad is only intended for girls. I'm generally monogamous but I'm easy to adapt to my sub needs so if my sub wants to keep an open D/s relationship that's fine by me as long as both parties are aware and clear on the situation. Generally I will not accept married subs unless the partner is aware and agrees to the situation. You will be my top priority and so I would generally like to be a priority for you as well. I've had a few experiences with couples, so these situations are fine too as long as the woman is submissive to me and with everyones agreement and comfort on what's happening.
SECOND: I really love erotic and sensual photography and I love when my sub teases or pleases me with requested or unrequested pictures and videos, I also love poses and dress up play so having a working camera (and possibly but not necessarily a webcam) is requested and not negotiable. Naked or underwear or clothed pictures and videos as surprises or during playtime or to provide proofs will be requested (and saved and kept by me) and they will be a must have in our dynamic since it's my main fetish, so if you are not fine or comfortable with taking pics and videos I'm probably not what you are looking for. I'm aware of all the issues coming with this kind of fetish so pictures and videos are not necessarily happening right away upon trust is built and of course face in pics and videos is appreciated but will not be enforced and is not necessary. Of course none of your pictures and videos will ever be shared online or anywhere else (unless exhibitionism or exposure is agreed accordingly from both sides inside the dynamic).
THIRD: Trust is extremely important to me in D/s dynamics so we would need to be open to each other and not be afraid to talk any issues or worries that might come up with time. That's why, if needed, I always give my potential subs to have a trial period until comfort is enstablished and enough trust is built, with a softer involvement and smaller playtimes during it to adapt to the schedule since I'm aware that trust can't be achieved over a day or two, so I'm totally fine in us taking our time to better know each other before starting to see if the relationship can work.
FOURTH: I expect some time of daily privacy with my sub to focus on our playtime and intimate activities. It can be 30 minutes, an hour or more and it doesen't really need to be everyday but I want to have some private time with my sub. Also a place where to take good pictures and videos using selfies or timer on the camera would be a good plus but it's not necessary. This point is not negotiable if you don't have some free time during the day or at least a few days during the week to dedicate then this is probably not what you're looking for.
FIFTH: I really enjoy control and rules. I am heavily into total power exchange, but I know that it's hard to achieve, especially when there is some time difference and distance, so I am fine with less control too, but there are a couple of things that I will want to take complete control. We will discuss them in private and depending on your lifestyle we'll agree about what degree of control and which things I will control. This point is not negotiable
HOW THIS WILL WORK
I don't have a fixed set of rules and I prefer to adapt to every person and situation. The rules will not be set in stone and they can be changed anytime accordingly to any issue or need that might come up so that they will not interfere with any important aspect of your life. We will discuss them together in private once things start going. Naturally, breaking a rule once or twice won't result in a punishment but most likely in a warning, while punishments will happen if they a certain number of warnings are given. Of course punishments will never involve any of your limits
I like to assign daily tasks that can involve a wide variety of things, from pictures in particular poses or clothing to writings and such. I might set a deadline accordingly to your timezone, and breaking it or not completing the task will lead to a warning (unless a valid reason is given) and multiple warnings might lead to a punishment
The relationship I am looking for, is possibly (and hopefully) a long term one since i value my time and efforts a lot and I don't plan on spending them with people unsure of what they want or that don't agree with my terms. Distance and time difference are not a problem for me, I can easily adapt my schedule to mostly any GMT and location and I've had already many experiences with subs with up to 9 hours of time difference between us and have always handled it nicely. A preferred location is through Europe but any place is fine (my last sub was from Canada). Meetings might be a possibility with the right person and the desire from both, and I'm willing to be the one coming over, but only after some time have passed and only with serious and determined people.
While we can all be busy and have things to do in our lives and might need to be gone for hours or even days, which is totally fine, I want to be warned in advance if this happens since I don't like people disappearing on me or being left on read for hours without a warning. So I kindly ask to not suddenly disappear unless there is a valid reason. Our first chats will happen here on the site, but after the first convrsations we will shortly move over private messaging apps for communication like Kik, Skype, Whatsapp, Hangout, Telegram or any other app you use for texting, as long as it allows pictures and videos exchange.
Well I guess that's all I have to write about me. If you are curious and interested in what i have to offer or want to know more about me, feel free to reach me in private, my dms are open to everyone and I'll gladly reply as soon as possible. I thank all of you for making it this far on this ad and taking your time to read everything. Hope to hear from you soon!
Have a nice day and lots of love to everyone!
