I once was part of an advanced research group that took a hard core look into this. From my collective experience i would place you into 90% yes it was real. Victims always report having visions through a dream state. The end game was not sexual but biological. This is semen milking 101. Female abductees have problems getting pregnant because their eggs are harvested. There are support groups for you guys. I had a nephew that wass alien abducted on the college campus of valdosta state college. His astronomy prof warned his class to never be out after dark as that was a ufo hotspot + D.O.D. contact area at the nearby usaf base. Well being young and stubborn he was walking the campus after 10pm. Was found the next day stark naked 10+ miles away. His watch was frozen at the exact time if capture and due to what must have been radiation he got very sick and he lost his hair. Later on he had chronic semen production issues due to what doctors deemed an extreme testicular strain event. If you need i can point you to some information on this phenomena.