Dom looking for longterm sub

clearinginthewood

Kinky Newbie
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Dominant
Jun 14, 2015
29
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0
My Bio
I am a 22 year old college student/ U.S. Military member. I am currently taking classes in the medical field and my studies are very important to me. While I put the work in to do well I also work hard to also have an active social life. My hobbies include rock climbing, hiking and camping, and kayaking, which all keep me fairly fit and in shape. On the other hand I also enjoy reading, playing video games, and going out to bars with friends. As far as appearances go I am 5’11”, around 165 pounds, with hair that has been described as any variation of “kind of reddish, blondish, brown”, and very dark, almost black, eyes.

As a Dom
I won’t claim to be the most experienced Dom on this site; I have close to 4 years of on again off again interest. This includes having subs in real life and online and they have all been ended gracefully and with everyone walking away without hard feelings. I prefer long-term meaningful relationships to simple trysts, but if I am not dedicating my time to an important sub I am happy to play short-term.

I am a diverse Dom as my kinks are fairly open ended. I feed off of my submissive, her likes become my likes and her dislikes become punishments. That does not mean I do have my own distinct set of kinks that will be worked in as well, as long as they are within limits. My control also extends to mental aspects of a sub. I will mold you into a more perfect sub for me. I want you to be a sub I can be proud of in both your submission and your own life adventures. This does not mean I will not respect your social life. I have no interest in interfering with your personal life, unless you expressly asked for it. Our relationship will be private and self contained. And this extends both ways, mutual trust, respect, and caring for one another is non-negotiable.

My expectations from you
I expect you to truly find happiness in your total submission to me. In the end this is the foundation we will build everything else upon. You should trust me to do what is best for you and that you are important to me. We should be able to carry a conversation when we are outside of scenarios. I spend my time on a sub because I think she is worthy of me taking time out of my day to care for her, not because I need a time sink. This leads to the fact that I am doing things with my life, I push myself to become better, to explore the world and do things others are afraid to do. I expect this spark in my sub. If you are complacent, or God forbid boring, I’m not sure we would be a good match for one another. You should be smart and in at least fairly good shape to keep up with me.


A relationship would begin on kik messenger with a discussion about ourselves, both in relation to a D/s relationship, but also about our interests to make sure we are a good fit for one another. Once I accept your submission we can discuss what other avenues of communication we are comfortable with as the relationship grows. I will require picture verification at the beginning. It can be clothed, as this is only to make sure you are who you claim to be. After your submission I will want pictures of you completing tasks, as well as just normal everyday pictures to share our lives and experiences. This does not mean you will just be a porn source, as you will mean far more to me than that. Nor must you show your face or give up your anonymity if that is not something you are comfortable with, as your comfort in our relationship is my priority.

Likes and limits
This list is alphabetical and by no means complete, but it should give you an overall idea
Likes
Anal
Begging
Behavior modification
Blindfold
Chastity
Clamping
Clothing control
Collars (both actual and symbolic)
Deep throating
DP
Forced orgasm
Gags
Humiliating names
Ice
Kneeling
Multiple penetration
Nipple play
Oral
Orgasm control/denial
Plugs
Spanking
Total submission
Wax play

Dislike
Branding
Breath play
Catheters
Diapers
Enemas
Heavy water sports
Menstration sex
Overt public
Pet/pony play

Limits
Anything that leaves permanent marks
Anything illegal
Fake rape
Knife play
Prostitution
Scat

If you’ve made it here I assume you have some interest in what I have to offer. If so message me on here with a little about yourself and what about my ad interests you and we can go from there.
 

jase3331

Kinky Newbie
  • Gay
  • Male
  • Slave
Jul 12, 2015
9
0
0
Liverpool UK
hi

would love to hear from you

sub guy on skype now with cam

if you get me high and uninhibited as well and get me to give you real data like phone number and b/f contact information and threaten to expose me online with pics, you get all the control you need

add me to skype and dont tell me where you got my id from, just take control and trick me into giving you information you can use to manipulate me.

skype jase3331
 

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