Having difficulty finding a real Mistress

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I am brand new to this whole thing so maybe I’m a little naive, but it seems almost impossible to find a real Female Mistress. Every time I’m talking with someone, it seems like they want me to go full speed ahead right off the bat. And then when I won’t show my face or shove something in my pee hole, they tell me I’m not serious. I am very serious about being a sub. I know I could be a good little slut for my Mistress. If I could just find someone willing to have a little bit of patience with me. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but it is extremely frustrating. I’m open to any suggestions as to how I should go about finding a good Mistress.