Does anyone have any good tips or advice for dealing with heartbreak? I'm trying to stay away from my normal self-destructive patterns.
I am afraid I only have the usual cliches to offer. Ice cream is always good- but fairly self destructive. I turn to a heavy night of drinking and strippers, but it is only superficially fulfilling.
Maybe a pet, but that takes commitment and love. Poetry, music, painting, dance or the arts seem to attract the broken hearted. Maybe start a pottery class! Then you can combine your love for the Kinky, with a skill, and make phallic pottery!
Or go to a comedy club and just laugh.
Find a friend and take a hug... here is one for you now!