Iowa: M/Sub/21 seeks F/Dom/All ages ~ Smart Sensual Sadists Wanted!

Sexuality
Straight
Gender
Male
Orientation
Submissive
Region
United States (East of the Rockies)

SubmiSeth

Kinky Newbie
  • Straight
  • Male
  • Submissive
Apr 11, 2013
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21 year old submissive male seeking a dominant female of any age

If I had to use two words to describe my perfect female dom. Just two, it would be a sensual sadist.

I'm not one who will beg you to control me. That's not control. That's me asking someone to say something to me, usually among a list of things I enjoy and would do to myself anyway. I don't like the submissive's who grovel to every half-intelligent female on this website. Domination and submission is not a static state of mind. It's dynamic. A constant tug of war. The thrill of being dominated comes from slamming your will against someone and then having theirs come back and crush you.

Do you understand this?

A few things I need to say. I am straight in the sense of who I am in a relationship of. Most would say heteroflexible. If my Mistress/girlfriend is into some forced bisexual, I'm into that. But I can't be in a male/male relationship. I still enjoy playing with a male dom as a play-partner.

If I was to choose a label, it would be pet. To have a dominant female touch my cheek, say I'm a good boy makes my mind bend, quiver, and I melt a bit inside. Being treated like a pet (Literally) makes me way happier and submissive compared to a slave or "equal".

The book "Wheel of Time" comes to mind when speaking of this. If you have read the series then I'd say I would enjoy someone like Tylin, or Tuon. The damane relationship also excites me when reading about it, despite the unwilling part, I reflect with the end result. Being happy just to make your Domme happy.

Smiling and beaming inside when she is happy because of something you did, and fearing disappointment more than anything else in the world.

Vanilla Stuff

Patrick Rothfuss is one of my favorite authors, The Name of the Wind (the series). The Mistborn Trilogy, and Robert Sanderson's other books. (Elantris, Stormlight Archive). I've read all 13 books of the wheel of time probably 3 times now.

Recently got into science fiction, I finished all of the seasons of Doctor Who (2005) not too long ago. Stargate is the series I am currently working on, and I am debating the next one (Possibly Star Trek Enterprise)

I also have a strong interest in video games, PC Gaming mostly. Very few PC games I won't play. I've probably played all of them.

I am an Eagle Scout, and as such I enjoy the outdoors a lot, but I never get to experience them due to my lack of friends and obvious interest in computers steers me indoors and away from the sunlight.

  • Kinks:
Anal Play (new to this), Humiliation, Forced Feminization, Forced Bisexual, Blindfolds/Gags/Sensory Deprivation, Hypnosis, Collars/Leashes, Corsets/Stockings, Outdoor Bondage, Chastity, Obedience Training. Spanking

  • Experience:
I had a girlfriend at a young age who we sort of mutually discovered female domination. Age 16-18 she referred to me as her boytoy but we didn't really get into anything "fun" - but the concept hooked me. I knew I was submissive since the age of 12. I've always read sex stories, I can't really do porn.

After that I had a few brief play partners, 2-3. One was an older Domme who was 90% into pain, at a level I wasn't comfortable with.

Other than that, most girls I've spoke with were new. They didn't know how to control someone. I crave that. I'm smart and I need someone smarter than me.

  • Limits:
Diapers/Baby Play, Blood, Knife/Needle/Breaking skin, watersports, scat, kids, more of the usual stuff.
 

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