This was orginaly posted as an answer in this thread: What Makes A Sub Want to be A Sub
But as this was going in a totally different direction while still being an intersting discussion i did take the posts and made a new thread out of it
Merlin
It is not really “easy to tell” while a Dominate figure chooses to be dominate, for the fact of the matter most “masters” tend to be fake by definition, a true Dominate/Master, does not ponder and ponder on it saying I wish to be the dominate one, it is more or less a feeling, a feeling within us that says we must be in control, a true master or mistress finds no pleasure in allowing some one to have control over them.
But the same can be said about a “true” sub or slaves, most slaves or subs especially nowadays simply say they are to be desired or wanted, it is the same as the many woman who claim to be bisexual yet have no plans on being with a woman.
A true sub feels it in themselves to serve and be dominated, they do not sit around and wonder why it is just the way it is, and like the whole bisexual thing they do not say it to get attention they truly have the need to be dominated.
I see many even on here and many sites who claim to be Masters, tend to only be dominate in the bedroom this is not the simple mark of a Master, and others tend not to know the difference between “being submissive” and “being a submissive”, one merely shows the woman natural pleasing instinct while the other shows her desire to be controlled, to be taught by a true Master.
But as this was going in a totally different direction while still being an intersting discussion i did take the posts and made a new thread out of it
Merlin
It is not really “easy to tell” while a Dominate figure chooses to be dominate, for the fact of the matter most “masters” tend to be fake by definition, a true Dominate/Master, does not ponder and ponder on it saying I wish to be the dominate one, it is more or less a feeling, a feeling within us that says we must be in control, a true master or mistress finds no pleasure in allowing some one to have control over them.
But the same can be said about a “true” sub or slaves, most slaves or subs especially nowadays simply say they are to be desired or wanted, it is the same as the many woman who claim to be bisexual yet have no plans on being with a woman.
A true sub feels it in themselves to serve and be dominated, they do not sit around and wonder why it is just the way it is, and like the whole bisexual thing they do not say it to get attention they truly have the need to be dominated.
I see many even on here and many sites who claim to be Masters, tend to only be dominate in the bedroom this is not the simple mark of a Master, and others tend not to know the difference between “being submissive” and “being a submissive”, one merely shows the woman natural pleasing instinct while the other shows her desire to be controlled, to be taught by a true Master.
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