Male dom/female sub kink check list
- Limit: means that the activity is a hard limit and that the sub will NEVER do that activity under any circumstances ever.
- Soft limit: means that the sub has great reticences towards that activity. Those can be due to either a VERY strong dislike, fear or disdain for that activity in general but that it is not impossible to negotiate them under some special circumstances.
- Dislike: means that the sub don’t like the activity but would not object if ordered to.
- Hmm…: means that the sub has no (or very little) experience with the activity and that she is not really curious about it either.
- Curious: means that the sub have no (or very little) experience with the activity but that she find the idea interesting.
- Desire: means that the sub has little or no experience with the activity but greatly wants to try it.
- Okay: means that the sub has no problem with the activity but it has no special appeal to her.
- Like: means that the sub likes the activity at least on an occasional basis.
- Love: means that the activity figures among the sub’s favorites
Abrasion:*Limit
Aftercare: Love
Age play:*Love
Anal beads:*Desire
Anal sex:*Desire
Appearance modification:*??
Armbinders:*Limit
Armpit sex:*Limit
Ass cheek sex:*Limit
Ass worship:*Like
Bare bottom spanking:*Love
Bare-handed spanking:*Love
Bastinado:*Limit
Bathroom use control:*Limit
Begging:*Love
Behavior modification:*Curious
Belt spanking:*Love
Ben Wa balls:*Curious
Bestiality:*Limit
Beating (soft):*Like
Beating (hard):*Limit
Biting:*Love
Blackmail (play):*Hmm
Blindfolds:*Love
Blow job:*Love
Body paint:*Love
Body worship:*Hmm
Bondage (light):*Love
Bondage (heavy): Curious
Bondage (public, under clothes):*Love
Boot blacking:*Limit
Boot worship:*Limit
Boss/secretary roleplay:*Love
Branding (temporary):*Curious
Branding (permanent):*Limit
Breast bondage:*Soft Limit
Breast fucking:*Like
Breast play/torture:*Like
Breast spanking:*Love
Breath play:*Curious
Brother/sister roleplay:*Limit
Bruises:*Like
Butt plugs (small):*Love
Butt plugs (large):*Curious
Butt plugs (public, under clothes):* Love
Cages:*Desire/Curious
Caning:*Limit
Catheterization:*Limit
Cattle prod:*Limit
Chains:*Like
Chamber-pot use:*Limit
Chastity belt:*Limit
Chauffeuring:*Limit
Chemical play:*Limit
Cigarette torture:*Limit
Clit torture:*Like
Closet (locked inside of):*Limit
Clothespins:*Curious
Cock worship: Love very much hehe
Collars (worn in private):*Love
Collars (worn in public):*Love
Consensual non-consent:*Limit
Contracts:*Curious
Corner time:*Curious
Corsets:*Love
Crawling:*Love
Creampie:*Desire ^·^
Cross-dressing:*Limit
Cuddling:*Love
Cunnilingus:*Love
Cutting:*Limit
Daddy/daughter roleplay:*Limit
Deep throating:*Limit
Degradation:*Soft Limit
Denim/Jeans clothing:*Curious
Diapers (wearing):*Limit
Diapers (wetting):*Limit
Diapers (soiling):*Limit
Dilation (anal):*Curious
Dilation (vaginal):*Limit
Dildos (penetration):*Desire
Dildos (sucking on):*Desire
Discipline:*Love
Doctor/nurse roleplay:*Love ^·^
Domestic service:*Like
Double penetration (oral/anal):*Love
Double penetration (oral/vaginal):*Love
Double penetration (vaginal/anal):*Love
Douching:*Limit
Duct tape:*Dislike
Ear plugs:*Curious
Enemas:*Limit
Erotic dance:*Curious
Examinations:*Curious
Exhibitionism (private):*Like
Exhibitionism (public):*Soft Limit
Eye contact restriction:*Curious
Face farting:*Limit
Face fucking (forced blow job):*Soft Limit
Face slapping:*Soft Limit
Fantasy abandonment:*Limit
Fantasy rape:*Limit
Fear (being scared):*
Figging:*Soft Limit
Fingering:*Love
Fire play:*Limit
Fisting (anal):*Limit
Fisting (vaginal):*Limit
Flogging:*Curious
Food control:*Dislike
Food play:*Curious
Foot worship:*Limit
Forced bedwetting:*Limit
Forced exercise:*Limit.
Forced homosexuality: Curious
Forced masturbation:*Like
Forced nudity (private):*Love
Forced nudity (around others):*Limit
Forced orgasms:*Love
Forced smoking:*Limit
Forced weight gain:*Limit
Forced weight loss:*Limit
Gags (ball):*Love
Gags (cloth):*Love
Gags (inflatable): Curious
Gags (panties):*Love
Gags (phallic):*Limit
Gags (ring):*Dislike
Gags (tape):*Curious
Gang bang (fantasy):*Limit
Gang bang (real):*Limit
Gas masks:*Curious
Genital bondage:*Limit
Genital sex:*Love
Given away to another Dom (temporary):*Limit
Given away to another Dom (permanent):*Limit
Gun play: Limit
Hair bondage:*Soft Limit
Hairbrush spanking:*Curious
Hair pulling:*Love
Handcuffs (leather):*Love
Handcuffs (metal):*Love
Handcuffs (rope):*Love
Hand job (giving):*Like
Hand job (receiving):*Love
Harems (serving with other subs):*Curious
Harnessing (leather):*Curious
Harnessing (rope):*Curious
Having clothes chosen for:* Like
Head harness:*Limit
High heels (wearing):*Love
Homework Assignments: Like
Hoods:*Soft Limit
Hot oils (on genitals):*Curious
Hot wax:*Desire
Humiliation (private):*Curious
Humiliation (public):*Limit
Hypnotism :*Limit
Ice cubes :*Love
Impregnation (fantasy) :*Limit
Impregnation (real) :*Limit
Interrogation :*Limit
Japanese rope bondage: Curious
Kidnapping fantasy: Soft Limit
Kissing:*Love
Kneeling: Love*
Knife play:*Limit
Lactation:*Limit
Latex clothing:*Curious
Leashes:*Love
Leather clothing:*Curious
Lectures for misbehavior:*Like
Lingerie (wearing):*Love
Manicure (giving):*Okay
Massage (giving):*Love
Massage (receiving):*Lovee (lower back)
Medical play:*Curious
Menstruation sex:*Soft Limit
Mental bondage:*Curious
Mind control:*Limit
Mind fucks:*Limit
Modeling for erotic photos:*Love
Mouth bits:*Limit
Mouth soaping:*Dislike
Multiple orgasms:*please
Mummification:*Limit
Mutual masturbation:*Okay
Name change (fantasy):*Curious
Name change (legal):*Limit
Needles:*Limit
Nipple play/torture:*Love
Nipple weights:*Dislike
Nylon clothing:*Like
Orgasm control:*Curious
Orgasm denial:*Dislike
OTK spanking:*Love
Outdoor scenes:*Love
Outdoor sex:*Love
Paddles (leather):*Love
Paddles (wood):*Curious
Pantyhose/stockings (wearing):*Love
Pet play:*I am a kitten/kit(fox)
Phone sex (serving Dom):*Curious
Phone sex (serving other Doms):*Dislike
Phone sex (professionally):*Limit
Piercings:*Limit
Pinching:*Dislike
Plastic surgery: ???
Police/prisoner roleplay:*Love
Posture training:*Curious
Priest/nun roleplay:*Curious
Prostitution (fantasy):*Limit
Prostitution (real):*Limit
Punishment (play a.k.a. “funishment”):* Love
Punishment (real):*Love
Pussy spanking:*Curious
Pussy/crotch torture:*Dislike
Remote control devices:*Desire
Restraints (ankles):*Love
Restraints (knees):*Love
Restraints combinations (wrists to waist, etc.):*Curious
Restrictive rules on behavior:*Curious
Riding crops:*Like
Rimming (giving):*Limit
Rimming (receiving):*Limit
Rituals:*Limit
Rough sex:*Love
Saran wrapping:*Limit
Scarification:*Limit
Scat:*Limit
Scent play (aromas):*Love if they good smells
Scratching:*Like
Serving as furniture:*Dislike
Serving as toilet (urine):*Limit
Serving as toilet (feces):*Limit
Serving as waitress:*Desire
Serving other Doms (supervised):*Desire
Serving other Doms (unsupervised):*Hmm
Sexual deprivation (short term):*Dislike
Sexual deprivation (long term):*Dislike
Shaving (body hair):*Like
Shaving (genitals):*Love
Shaving (head):*Limit
Skinny-dipping:*Like
Skirts (wearing):*Like
Sleep assault:*Soft Limit
Sleep deprivation:*Limit
Sleepsacks/body bags:*Hmm
Slutty clothing (private):*Love
Slutty clothing (public):*Like
Spandex clothing: Love
Speculums (anal):*Limit
Speculums (vaginal):*Soft Limit
Speech restrictions:*Curious
Spitting:*Limit
Spreader bars:*Love
Staples:*Limit
Straight jackets:*Limit
Suction cups:*Limit
Suspension (vertical):*Curious
Suspension (inverted):*Curious
Suspension (horizontal):*Curious
Swallowing (semen):*Loveeee
Swallowing (urine):*Limit
Swallowing (feces):*Limit
Swapping (with another couple):*Hmm
Swinging (multiple couples):*Hmm
Switching:*Limit
Tampon training (in ass):*Limit
Tasting own cum:*Dislike
Tattoos:*Love
Teacher/student roleplay:*Love
Tears (crying):*Soft Limit
Teasing:*Love
TENS unit:*Limit
Threesomes (FFM):*Desire
Threesomes (FMM):*Curious
Thumbcuffs:*Curious
Tickling:*Limit. You will only piss me off.
Triple penetration:*Curious
Urethral fucking:*Limit
Urethral sounds:*Limit
Verbal humiliation:*Hmm
Vibrators (on genitals):*Desire
Vibrators (penetration):*Desire
Videos (being recorded):*Desire
Violet Wand:*Desire
Vomitting:*Limit
Voyeurism:*Hmm
Waterbondage:*Limit
Watersports:*Limit
Water torture:*Limit
Waxing (hair removal):*Limit
Wearing body fluids:*Limit
Wearing symbolic jewelry:*
Whipping:*Curious
Wrestling:*Soft Limit
Zapping (electric fly swatters): Limit
- Limit: means that the activity is a hard limit and that the sub will NEVER do that activity under any circumstances ever.
- Soft limit: means that the sub has great reticences towards that activity. Those can be due to either a VERY strong dislike, fear or disdain for that activity in general but that it is not impossible to negotiate them under some special circumstances.
- Dislike: means that the sub don’t like the activity but would not object if ordered to.
- Hmm…: means that the sub has no (or very little) experience with the activity and that she is not really curious about it either.
- Curious: means that the sub have no (or very little) experience with the activity but that she find the idea interesting.
- Desire: means that the sub has little or no experience with the activity but greatly wants to try it.
- Okay: means that the sub has no problem with the activity but it has no special appeal to her.
- Like: means that the sub likes the activity at least on an occasional basis.
- Love: means that the activity figures among the sub’s favorites
Abrasion:*Limit
Aftercare: Love
Age play:*Love
Anal beads:*Desire
Anal sex:*Desire
Appearance modification:*??
Armbinders:*Limit
Armpit sex:*Limit
Ass cheek sex:*Limit
Ass worship:*Like
Bare bottom spanking:*Love
Bare-handed spanking:*Love
Bastinado:*Limit
Bathroom use control:*Limit
Begging:*Love
Behavior modification:*Curious
Belt spanking:*Love
Ben Wa balls:*Curious
Bestiality:*Limit
Beating (soft):*Like
Beating (hard):*Limit
Biting:*Love
Blackmail (play):*Hmm
Blindfolds:*Love
Blow job:*Love
Body paint:*Love
Body worship:*Hmm
Bondage (light):*Love
Bondage (heavy): Curious
Bondage (public, under clothes):*Love
Boot blacking:*Limit
Boot worship:*Limit
Boss/secretary roleplay:*Love
Branding (temporary):*Curious
Branding (permanent):*Limit
Breast bondage:*Soft Limit
Breast fucking:*Like
Breast play/torture:*Like
Breast spanking:*Love
Breath play:*Curious
Brother/sister roleplay:*Limit
Bruises:*Like
Butt plugs (small):*Love
Butt plugs (large):*Curious
Butt plugs (public, under clothes):* Love
Cages:*Desire/Curious
Caning:*Limit
Catheterization:*Limit
Cattle prod:*Limit
Chains:*Like
Chamber-pot use:*Limit
Chastity belt:*Limit
Chauffeuring:*Limit
Chemical play:*Limit
Cigarette torture:*Limit
Clit torture:*Like
Closet (locked inside of):*Limit
Clothespins:*Curious
Cock worship: Love very much hehe
Collars (worn in private):*Love
Collars (worn in public):*Love
Consensual non-consent:*Limit
Contracts:*Curious
Corner time:*Curious
Corsets:*Love
Crawling:*Love
Creampie:*Desire ^·^
Cross-dressing:*Limit
Cuddling:*Love
Cunnilingus:*Love
Cutting:*Limit
Daddy/daughter roleplay:*Limit
Deep throating:*Limit
Degradation:*Soft Limit
Denim/Jeans clothing:*Curious
Diapers (wearing):*Limit
Diapers (wetting):*Limit
Diapers (soiling):*Limit
Dilation (anal):*Curious
Dilation (vaginal):*Limit
Dildos (penetration):*Desire
Dildos (sucking on):*Desire
Discipline:*Love
Doctor/nurse roleplay:*Love ^·^
Domestic service:*Like
Double penetration (oral/anal):*Love
Double penetration (oral/vaginal):*Love
Double penetration (vaginal/anal):*Love
Douching:*Limit
Duct tape:*Dislike
Ear plugs:*Curious
Enemas:*Limit
Erotic dance:*Curious
Examinations:*Curious
Exhibitionism (private):*Like
Exhibitionism (public):*Soft Limit
Eye contact restriction:*Curious
Face farting:*Limit
Face fucking (forced blow job):*Soft Limit
Face slapping:*Soft Limit
Fantasy abandonment:*Limit
Fantasy rape:*Limit
Fear (being scared):*
Figging:*Soft Limit
Fingering:*Love
Fire play:*Limit
Fisting (anal):*Limit
Fisting (vaginal):*Limit
Flogging:*Curious
Food control:*Dislike
Food play:*Curious
Foot worship:*Limit
Forced bedwetting:*Limit
Forced exercise:*Limit.
Forced homosexuality: Curious
Forced masturbation:*Like
Forced nudity (private):*Love
Forced nudity (around others):*Limit
Forced orgasms:*Love
Forced smoking:*Limit
Forced weight gain:*Limit
Forced weight loss:*Limit
Gags (ball):*Love
Gags (cloth):*Love
Gags (inflatable): Curious
Gags (panties):*Love
Gags (phallic):*Limit
Gags (ring):*Dislike
Gags (tape):*Curious
Gang bang (fantasy):*Limit
Gang bang (real):*Limit
Gas masks:*Curious
Genital bondage:*Limit
Genital sex:*Love
Given away to another Dom (temporary):*Limit
Given away to another Dom (permanent):*Limit
Gun play: Limit
Hair bondage:*Soft Limit
Hairbrush spanking:*Curious
Hair pulling:*Love
Handcuffs (leather):*Love
Handcuffs (metal):*Love
Handcuffs (rope):*Love
Hand job (giving):*Like
Hand job (receiving):*Love
Harems (serving with other subs):*Curious
Harnessing (leather):*Curious
Harnessing (rope):*Curious
Having clothes chosen for:* Like
Head harness:*Limit
High heels (wearing):*Love
Homework Assignments: Like
Hoods:*Soft Limit
Hot oils (on genitals):*Curious
Hot wax:*Desire
Humiliation (private):*Curious
Humiliation (public):*Limit
Hypnotism :*Limit
Ice cubes :*Love
Impregnation (fantasy) :*Limit
Impregnation (real) :*Limit
Interrogation :*Limit
Japanese rope bondage: Curious
Kidnapping fantasy: Soft Limit
Kissing:*Love
Kneeling: Love*
Knife play:*Limit
Lactation:*Limit
Latex clothing:*Curious
Leashes:*Love
Leather clothing:*Curious
Lectures for misbehavior:*Like
Lingerie (wearing):*Love
Manicure (giving):*Okay
Massage (giving):*Love
Massage (receiving):*Lovee (lower back)
Medical play:*Curious
Menstruation sex:*Soft Limit
Mental bondage:*Curious
Mind control:*Limit
Mind fucks:*Limit
Modeling for erotic photos:*Love
Mouth bits:*Limit
Mouth soaping:*Dislike
Multiple orgasms:*please
Mummification:*Limit
Mutual masturbation:*Okay
Name change (fantasy):*Curious
Name change (legal):*Limit
Needles:*Limit
Nipple play/torture:*Love
Nipple weights:*Dislike
Nylon clothing:*Like
Orgasm control:*Curious
Orgasm denial:*Dislike
OTK spanking:*Love
Outdoor scenes:*Love
Outdoor sex:*Love
Paddles (leather):*Love
Paddles (wood):*Curious
Pantyhose/stockings (wearing):*Love
Pet play:*I am a kitten/kit(fox)
Phone sex (serving Dom):*Curious
Phone sex (serving other Doms):*Dislike
Phone sex (professionally):*Limit
Piercings:*Limit
Pinching:*Dislike
Plastic surgery: ???
Police/prisoner roleplay:*Love
Posture training:*Curious
Priest/nun roleplay:*Curious
Prostitution (fantasy):*Limit
Prostitution (real):*Limit
Punishment (play a.k.a. “funishment”):* Love
Punishment (real):*Love
Pussy spanking:*Curious
Pussy/crotch torture:*Dislike
Remote control devices:*Desire
Restraints (ankles):*Love
Restraints (knees):*Love
Restraints combinations (wrists to waist, etc.):*Curious
Restrictive rules on behavior:*Curious
Riding crops:*Like
Rimming (giving):*Limit
Rimming (receiving):*Limit
Rituals:*Limit
Rough sex:*Love
Saran wrapping:*Limit
Scarification:*Limit
Scat:*Limit
Scent play (aromas):*Love if they good smells
Scratching:*Like
Serving as furniture:*Dislike
Serving as toilet (urine):*Limit
Serving as toilet (feces):*Limit
Serving as waitress:*Desire
Serving other Doms (supervised):*Desire
Serving other Doms (unsupervised):*Hmm
Sexual deprivation (short term):*Dislike
Sexual deprivation (long term):*Dislike
Shaving (body hair):*Like
Shaving (genitals):*Love
Shaving (head):*Limit
Skinny-dipping:*Like
Skirts (wearing):*Like
Sleep assault:*Soft Limit
Sleep deprivation:*Limit
Sleepsacks/body bags:*Hmm
Slutty clothing (private):*Love
Slutty clothing (public):*Like
Spandex clothing: Love
Speculums (anal):*Limit
Speculums (vaginal):*Soft Limit
Speech restrictions:*Curious
Spitting:*Limit
Spreader bars:*Love
Staples:*Limit
Straight jackets:*Limit
Suction cups:*Limit
Suspension (vertical):*Curious
Suspension (inverted):*Curious
Suspension (horizontal):*Curious
Swallowing (semen):*Loveeee
Swallowing (urine):*Limit
Swallowing (feces):*Limit
Swapping (with another couple):*Hmm
Swinging (multiple couples):*Hmm
Switching:*Limit
Tampon training (in ass):*Limit
Tasting own cum:*Dislike
Tattoos:*Love
Teacher/student roleplay:*Love
Tears (crying):*Soft Limit
Teasing:*Love
TENS unit:*Limit
Threesomes (FFM):*Desire
Threesomes (FMM):*Curious
Thumbcuffs:*Curious
Tickling:*Limit. You will only piss me off.
Triple penetration:*Curious
Urethral fucking:*Limit
Urethral sounds:*Limit
Verbal humiliation:*Hmm
Vibrators (on genitals):*Desire
Vibrators (penetration):*Desire
Videos (being recorded):*Desire
Violet Wand:*Desire
Vomitting:*Limit
Voyeurism:*Hmm
Waterbondage:*Limit
Watersports:*Limit
Water torture:*Limit
Waxing (hair removal):*Limit
Wearing body fluids:*Limit
Wearing symbolic jewelry:*
Whipping:*Curious
Wrestling:*Soft Limit
Zapping (electric fly swatters): Limit
