Hello.
I am fairly new to the BDSM life style. Meaning I have toyed with it in the bedroom and the likes but it has never gone beyond that. With that being said I have been wanting a slave for some time and have found one. The issue is that she lives very far away from me and as such I find the whole idea hard to grasp. I am not entirely sure how to be a long distance master to her.
And there in lies the problem. I know I can command her and order her to complete her tasks and the like through the day. That is not the issue. The issue is as a master I prefer to punish my slaves when they don't do as told. So my question is how do I punish my new slave when I cannot be physically there to do so.
As of now I have been doing things like refusing her warm showers, or not allowing her to wear makeup, and of course orgasm denial. But I am grasping at straws on this one.
I am fairly new to the BDSM life style. Meaning I have toyed with it in the bedroom and the likes but it has never gone beyond that. With that being said I have been wanting a slave for some time and have found one. The issue is that she lives very far away from me and as such I find the whole idea hard to grasp. I am not entirely sure how to be a long distance master to her.
And there in lies the problem. I know I can command her and order her to complete her tasks and the like through the day. That is not the issue. The issue is as a master I prefer to punish my slaves when they don't do as told. So my question is how do I punish my new slave when I cannot be physically there to do so.
As of now I have been doing things like refusing her warm showers, or not allowing her to wear makeup, and of course orgasm denial. But I am grasping at straws on this one.
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