Hello and welcome to my post. I am a male dom who is in search for a kinky minded female to have online fun over snapchat and other online apps. And let me tell you more about what I am looking for.
As stated before, I am looking for a female, who is submissive in nature and is interested in being my online play partner. My personal idea of this would be we play when we are both available, willing, have the time for it and most importantly, with your consent.
About me:
I am an Asian dom who currently lives in USA. I have been on kinktalk for a while. Feel free to check out my old posts and replies to know me better. I am a strict and harsh dom in play and I enjoy punishing my sub when needed. But I am also fair and up front with the rules.
My kinks :
If you want to know more why they are my kinks, I happy to talk it through with you. As for bladder/piss control, I am purely into the humiliation aspect of sub loosing basic control of her body. Not really too into piss play itself.
Those are mainly what would be involved if we play. You are free to tell me what you like and don't like. The only non-negotiable kink is Orgasm control.
My limits:
Depends on what you like or not like with my kinks, this list can increase but not decrease. No limit is never an option.
My expectations for potential interested females are listed as following:
Photos/video:
I will ask for photo/video during play and yes they are an important aspect of play in my mind. I am not interested in being catfished or waste my time/effort/emotion . For me photo does two things, verify you as a female who is interested and during training I can see how well you are following orders. I understand you would be hesitant to send sensitive photos to strangers. I get it and I am willing to build that trust first. But I do at least expect you be able to verify with me if we hit of things right.
Regarding face, I am perfectly okay with not showing face. This would help both of us if I know minimum real life identifier of you as possible. Under the rare circumstance we really hit off and you think we have had that trust built, if you want to show me your pretty face I won't say no. As for video, that's frosting on the cake. Same deal with no showing face in general unless you think you can trust me
Communication/Honesty:
Either it to be long term or short term, I believe in open good communication between sub and dom. Considering I am not there to catch you when you fall due to the online nature of things, good on communication and being honest with me is the best way I can assure we are both having fun and being safe.
I am not a huge grammer fanatic simply due to the fact English is my second language, but I do hope you put some effort in the replies. I enjoy reading the detailed report as much as seeing the photo from you.
Time Zone/Availability:
I am located in United States with central Time zone. A similar time zone would help as can make things much easier but I am willing to work with other time zones if we both hit off great.
I do have work during the day time now so it would be chatting mainly if I have a spare moment. Mainly play would be during week day nights and weekends for me.
Age/Experience:
Just a side note I want to pick 19+ for age but there is no such choice. I don't mind if you are either a new comer or had previous experiences as I am still learning myself. But if you are a newbie I hope you have your list of kinks and limits ready. Because I will be asking them. No limit is never an option.
Vanilla me
If you want to know about vanilla me, I am happy to tell you during after play while we are chatting. A little spoiler, I am a nerd and love memes. But this is not the point for this post.
How should you reply
Thanks for reading this far and hopefully I still have your attention. Ladies if you are interested, I am happy to hear from you. But to make things a bit more easier on both end, here are some questions I would be asking you:
You may send me a message here, if you are interested, as this is my preferred method in initial contact. This way I can look through your post history, if there is any, to know you better. We can move on to snapchat or other online chatting method once we determined we are a good fit. (currently kik is broken on my phone no matter what I do. So I figured it is easier to switch app then get a new phone. )
Do remember when you first message me, I am only interested in chatting with girls who talk with me as equals, out of play context. Messaging me doesn't mean I am automatically your dom. I am not interested in jumping in right away.
Thanks for your time in reading my long post and I am looking forward to hear from you. I always happy to chat and hear your feedback on my ad even if you are not interested in playing.
P.s.
If you happen to have a getdare account, you might read a similar post. That account is mine. As I still stand by my words, I don't see the need of change it much.
As stated before, I am looking for a female, who is submissive in nature and is interested in being my online play partner. My personal idea of this would be we play when we are both available, willing, have the time for it and most importantly, with your consent.
About me:
I am an Asian dom who currently lives in USA. I have been on kinktalk for a while. Feel free to check out my old posts and replies to know me better. I am a strict and harsh dom in play and I enjoy punishing my sub when needed. But I am also fair and up front with the rules.
My kinks :
- Orgasm control (edging, denial, forced orgasm, ruined orgasm, over stimulation)
- Spanking/Pain/Face Slapping (my guilty pleasure)
- Humiliation/degradation
- Body Writing
- Nipple play
- Pet play
- Discreet public play
- Bondage
- Bladder/piss control (humiliation aspect of it)
If you want to know more why they are my kinks, I happy to talk it through with you. As for bladder/piss control, I am purely into the humiliation aspect of sub loosing basic control of her body. Not really too into piss play itself.
Those are mainly what would be involved if we play. You are free to tell me what you like and don't like. The only non-negotiable kink is Orgasm control.
My limits:
Depends on what you like or not like with my kinks, this list can increase but not decrease. No limit is never an option.
- Blood
- Scat
- Vomit
- Body injury
- Illegal activity
- Real life info
- Social Suicide
My expectations for potential interested females are listed as following:
Photos/video:
I will ask for photo/video during play and yes they are an important aspect of play in my mind. I am not interested in being catfished or waste my time/effort/emotion . For me photo does two things, verify you as a female who is interested and during training I can see how well you are following orders. I understand you would be hesitant to send sensitive photos to strangers. I get it and I am willing to build that trust first. But I do at least expect you be able to verify with me if we hit of things right.
Regarding face, I am perfectly okay with not showing face. This would help both of us if I know minimum real life identifier of you as possible. Under the rare circumstance we really hit off and you think we have had that trust built, if you want to show me your pretty face I won't say no. As for video, that's frosting on the cake. Same deal with no showing face in general unless you think you can trust me
Communication/Honesty:
Either it to be long term or short term, I believe in open good communication between sub and dom. Considering I am not there to catch you when you fall due to the online nature of things, good on communication and being honest with me is the best way I can assure we are both having fun and being safe.
I am not a huge grammer fanatic simply due to the fact English is my second language, but I do hope you put some effort in the replies. I enjoy reading the detailed report as much as seeing the photo from you.
Time Zone/Availability:
I am located in United States with central Time zone. A similar time zone would help as can make things much easier but I am willing to work with other time zones if we both hit off great.
I do have work during the day time now so it would be chatting mainly if I have a spare moment. Mainly play would be during week day nights and weekends for me.
Age/Experience:
Just a side note I want to pick 19+ for age but there is no such choice. I don't mind if you are either a new comer or had previous experiences as I am still learning myself. But if you are a newbie I hope you have your list of kinks and limits ready. Because I will be asking them. No limit is never an option.
Vanilla me
If you want to know about vanilla me, I am happy to tell you during after play while we are chatting. A little spoiler, I am a nerd and love memes. But this is not the point for this post.
How should you reply
Thanks for reading this far and hopefully I still have your attention. Ladies if you are interested, I am happy to hear from you. But to make things a bit more easier on both end, here are some questions I would be asking you:
- Your age, gender, name or alias your preferred.
- Describe to me how you look like: Height, body figure, hair color, skin tone, etc. I understand this is a bit personal but I would like to have a basic idea who am I talking to. For reference, I am 6', 185lb, black hair asian with glasses and round face.
- Tell me about your kinks and limits. Be as detailed as you can as this helps we determine if we are compatible.
- Your time zone and what kind of availability is for you during a normal working week/weekend.
- What are your safe words?
- Do you own any toys/household item that can be used during play?
- Living condition. Do you live on your own or with roommate/family?
- What makes you send a pm to me after reading my post?
- What kind of relationship are you looking for? Short term or long term? Online friends with benefit which we chat about after play or more strict and business only?
- How much experience you have? It's okay to be new as I am too. I am happy to explore and learn with you.
- What's your favorite show/book?
You may send me a message here, if you are interested, as this is my preferred method in initial contact. This way I can look through your post history, if there is any, to know you better. We can move on to snapchat or other online chatting method once we determined we are a good fit. (currently kik is broken on my phone no matter what I do. So I figured it is easier to switch app then get a new phone. )
Do remember when you first message me, I am only interested in chatting with girls who talk with me as equals, out of play context. Messaging me doesn't mean I am automatically your dom. I am not interested in jumping in right away.
Thanks for your time in reading my long post and I am looking forward to hear from you. I always happy to chat and hear your feedback on my ad even if you are not interested in playing.
P.s.
If you happen to have a getdare account, you might read a similar post. That account is mine. As I still stand by my words, I don't see the need of change it much.
