"I'm your Master now, slave. Kik me, that's an order."
Well that just bursts my bubble a bit that I'm not the only one he sent that message to. I felt so special when I got it, especially since he didn't take the time to read anything I ever had written on this site.
There are some really great people on here, both genders, both sides of the exchange. The thing is the entire site isn't set up as a dating service, and the "real" people aren't always the most vocal. There are far too many people on here posting desperately about needing a Dom or sub, assuming everyone here is available and looking, not to mention up for whatever comes their way.
It's an actual relationship, even if it's only brief or occasional. It requires understanding and trust to be fulfilling. And it's an exchange, not a one sided deal. Both parties need to be satisfied. And like Sugar_spice said, many newbies get run off before they can become "real" due to idiots and/or abuse.
There are people that are serious, just a whole bunch of horny imposters to wade through to find them.