On the KinkTalk forums, Gibson posted the following.
I started to write a reply in place, but it came out so damm good that I chose to make a blog post with my reply, and link to it as a comment to his post.
Here is what his post was:
This is one of my favorite dares, but I heavily modified since it was mainly designed to be done without a partner.
But if you pull her through it the exact way I specify it here, I promise you she will love you for it and plead you to repeat it... even 50 years from now.
It is that good!
Don't forget to make slight variations, on subsecuent times.
Is she here? This dare would especially shine if she isn't and really has no clue of what you are up to. If this is the case, it will be the most exciting night in her life, it will be an experience she tells about on her dying bed.
If she find out, it will still be nice for her, it will not be as great as it could be, though. In this case, I suggest you modify it slightly.
I will assume she is not.
But before I tell you what to do, you must be able to read her exitation level enough to give her intentional edges... repeated edges... 10 times in a row without failure. If you miss and she gets to cum beforehand, this dare is moot. If you are not good enough to ensure this, practice until you are before attempting it. And do so without she noticing it.
Anyway, edging is a part of the BDSM scene. She will just assume that it is you starting slowly.
There is one major rule I want you to follow: two steps forward, one step back. In other words, with a lot of tesing.
This is not my rule. I have seen it given by many other teachers online, and I do not know who came with it first. It's importance, however, is paramount.
First, set the environment right. Classical music, wine, flowers, candles, keep them all. Everything that would make a normal romantic dinner, but in your home. But don't set anything up just yet.
Instead, get her bared. Tie her up. She should be sitting, her kees straight, and her legs as far apart as confortable, held along by multiple chairs. Tie up her hands behind her neck. She should be sitting in the chairs in the direction that they where ment to be used, not the other way around.
You must still consider the fact that she will remain tied for a long time, a few hours perhaps. So make firm knots, but don't apply to much pressure. Only strong enough for her not to be able to move.
Set up the table real nice. While you do this, she should be both blind folded and with professional earphones (those that block outside sounds) listening to music she does not like while you are preparing the dinner and the environment. Put a vibrator inside of her, set it on min. Better yet (if you can), set it to randomly turn on and off on a random level at random intervals short enough for it not to cause her to cum.
By telling her that you have a surprise for her, but this is the only way to prepare without her knowing what it is, this will help her to be really impatient for you are up to.
Get her sitted on the chairs first... without telling her anything.
Then, you will start to use dirty talk to her. Use degrading and offensive names. For a few soft examples (you might use worst if you feel like it) you might use are: whore, bitch, pig, etc. You might use combinations too. Use diminutives, coat this with partl nice partly harsh words, but use them.
Then, remove her sensory depribation. Her earphones go first, and put them away. Next, her blindflods. But do it so that as soon as you take it off, she is feeling your lips touch and your tongues mix. Kiss her for a few minutes.
You two must then have your dinner, and feed her too. Have her drink the wine. Have a real nice dinner, both of you.
After the dinner is over, remove the vibrator.
Start what I called the tripple action treatment on her all over her body.
This is the tripple action treatment. You kiss, you suck, you bite. You must do all 3 firmly but softly (as never to produce pain while doing it).
But be careful on how you do this. Don't go quickly, straight for her pussy or nipples. Do it softly, taking your time, giving her the 3 action treatment all over her body, but skipping her breast, her pussy, and her ass.
Concentrate on her neck, her shoulderss, her arms, her hands, her tummy, her back, her legs, her tights (reserve her inner tights for later).
Do so in an apparent random action, don't make it obvious where you will "attack" her next.
Every time you approach to a new place, remember the two steps forward one step back rule. It is essential in keeping girls excited and helping them come into orgasm. I am omitting it in the descriptions here, but it is essential that for every transition to a new spot you use this rule.
After you have applied the 3 action treatment to ALL of her body, you may now begin with her breasts. Start applying it near one ar, go up, around, switch breasts, go back up, around, back to the other arm, and repeat this cirquit a few times.
Next, start going on the lower part of her breasts. Apply the 3 action treatment to the bottom of her two breasts, get to the other hand, and return to where you started.
Proceed to bordering her entire left (or right) breast, circling around her aureola but not touching it.
Next, you can start on her other breast.
Then, proceed to her... tummy! Apply the 3 action tratment her all over her tummy. The fact that you are not rushing it will definetly drive her nuts! Especially since she is inmobilzed...
Then go back to her breast and start circling them again, from the beginnning. This time proceed to her aureolas, but not her nipples. Go somewhere else first (her feet?).
Do her breast, aureolas, and nipples. Make sure you bite on one of her niples hard. Not hard enough to make it bleed, but harder than you have been biting her all over. Use your incissors. This will really surprise her, shich she will enjoy.
Only the first nipple gets this treatment. It is important that the the other one doesn't get it. It will keep her guessing wheather you have planned to give it to her clit once you get there.
Then, start licking her pussy. But remember the two steps forward, one step back rule always.
Start by the top of her pussy lips (not by her clit, the best goes for last!). Apply the 3 action treatment on them all over. Then go for the other one.
Two steps forward, one step back.
Finally, start remove the vibrator and play with her clit. First with your hands, and then with your tongue.
And this is where the action begins. This is where your edging experience comes in handy.
Essentially you get to make her edge with your tongue here. Remember, when she is about to cum, withdraw from her and do not touch her. Do it for 60 seconds to let her cool down.
Do it for 10 times.
On the 11th, make her come!
On the 12, after the 60 second delay, start a timer on 15 minutes.
One word of caution, never stop stimulating the rest of her body too! Excepting, of course, during the times I told you to let her cool off. Then you are to stop stimulating her completely.
Keep on working on her exitement. If the timer comes off before she cums, it is over.
If she cums (or she beggins cumming) before the timer, you get to repeat it again.
But do not tell her that! Just do it, you are the Master.
When the timer finally comes off before she does... slap her clit 5 times hard. Again, this action is not consistent with the rest of the dare... She will not expect it, so she will be really surprised and will enjoy it inmensely.
Give her the 3 action treatment, proceed with the longest french kiss of your life. It is now over.
Finish the encounter by telling her whe is in denial until morning.
I know she isn't into the pain much. However you are the Master and you should spice it up a bit.
If you really don't want to do that, just don't do those parts. However, know that a little pain will really spice things up quite a bit.
I started to write a reply in place, but it came out so damm good that I chose to make a blog post with my reply, and link to it as a comment to his post.
Here is what his post was:
This is one of my favorite dares, but I heavily modified since it was mainly designed to be done without a partner.
But if you pull her through it the exact way I specify it here, I promise you she will love you for it and plead you to repeat it... even 50 years from now.
It is that good!
Don't forget to make slight variations, on subsecuent times.
Is she here? This dare would especially shine if she isn't and really has no clue of what you are up to. If this is the case, it will be the most exciting night in her life, it will be an experience she tells about on her dying bed.
If she find out, it will still be nice for her, it will not be as great as it could be, though. In this case, I suggest you modify it slightly.
I will assume she is not.
But before I tell you what to do, you must be able to read her exitation level enough to give her intentional edges... repeated edges... 10 times in a row without failure. If you miss and she gets to cum beforehand, this dare is moot. If you are not good enough to ensure this, practice until you are before attempting it. And do so without she noticing it.
Anyway, edging is a part of the BDSM scene. She will just assume that it is you starting slowly.
There is one major rule I want you to follow: two steps forward, one step back. In other words, with a lot of tesing.
This is not my rule. I have seen it given by many other teachers online, and I do not know who came with it first. It's importance, however, is paramount.
First, set the environment right. Classical music, wine, flowers, candles, keep them all. Everything that would make a normal romantic dinner, but in your home. But don't set anything up just yet.
Instead, get her bared. Tie her up. She should be sitting, her kees straight, and her legs as far apart as confortable, held along by multiple chairs. Tie up her hands behind her neck. She should be sitting in the chairs in the direction that they where ment to be used, not the other way around.
You must still consider the fact that she will remain tied for a long time, a few hours perhaps. So make firm knots, but don't apply to much pressure. Only strong enough for her not to be able to move.
Set up the table real nice. While you do this, she should be both blind folded and with professional earphones (those that block outside sounds) listening to music she does not like while you are preparing the dinner and the environment. Put a vibrator inside of her, set it on min. Better yet (if you can), set it to randomly turn on and off on a random level at random intervals short enough for it not to cause her to cum.
By telling her that you have a surprise for her, but this is the only way to prepare without her knowing what it is, this will help her to be really impatient for you are up to.
Get her sitted on the chairs first... without telling her anything.
Then, you will start to use dirty talk to her. Use degrading and offensive names. For a few soft examples (you might use worst if you feel like it) you might use are: whore, bitch, pig, etc. You might use combinations too. Use diminutives, coat this with partl nice partly harsh words, but use them.
Then, remove her sensory depribation. Her earphones go first, and put them away. Next, her blindflods. But do it so that as soon as you take it off, she is feeling your lips touch and your tongues mix. Kiss her for a few minutes.
You two must then have your dinner, and feed her too. Have her drink the wine. Have a real nice dinner, both of you.
After the dinner is over, remove the vibrator.
Start what I called the tripple action treatment on her all over her body.
This is the tripple action treatment. You kiss, you suck, you bite. You must do all 3 firmly but softly (as never to produce pain while doing it).
But be careful on how you do this. Don't go quickly, straight for her pussy or nipples. Do it softly, taking your time, giving her the 3 action treatment all over her body, but skipping her breast, her pussy, and her ass.
Concentrate on her neck, her shoulderss, her arms, her hands, her tummy, her back, her legs, her tights (reserve her inner tights for later).
Do so in an apparent random action, don't make it obvious where you will "attack" her next.
Every time you approach to a new place, remember the two steps forward one step back rule. It is essential in keeping girls excited and helping them come into orgasm. I am omitting it in the descriptions here, but it is essential that for every transition to a new spot you use this rule.
After you have applied the 3 action treatment to ALL of her body, you may now begin with her breasts. Start applying it near one ar, go up, around, switch breasts, go back up, around, back to the other arm, and repeat this cirquit a few times.
Next, start going on the lower part of her breasts. Apply the 3 action treatment to the bottom of her two breasts, get to the other hand, and return to where you started.
Proceed to bordering her entire left (or right) breast, circling around her aureola but not touching it.
Next, you can start on her other breast.
Then, proceed to her... tummy! Apply the 3 action tratment her all over her tummy. The fact that you are not rushing it will definetly drive her nuts! Especially since she is inmobilzed...
Then go back to her breast and start circling them again, from the beginnning. This time proceed to her aureolas, but not her nipples. Go somewhere else first (her feet?).
Do her breast, aureolas, and nipples. Make sure you bite on one of her niples hard. Not hard enough to make it bleed, but harder than you have been biting her all over. Use your incissors. This will really surprise her, shich she will enjoy.
Only the first nipple gets this treatment. It is important that the the other one doesn't get it. It will keep her guessing wheather you have planned to give it to her clit once you get there.
Then, start licking her pussy. But remember the two steps forward, one step back rule always.
Start by the top of her pussy lips (not by her clit, the best goes for last!). Apply the 3 action treatment on them all over. Then go for the other one.
Two steps forward, one step back.
Finally, start remove the vibrator and play with her clit. First with your hands, and then with your tongue.
And this is where the action begins. This is where your edging experience comes in handy.
Essentially you get to make her edge with your tongue here. Remember, when she is about to cum, withdraw from her and do not touch her. Do it for 60 seconds to let her cool down.
Do it for 10 times.
On the 11th, make her come!
On the 12, after the 60 second delay, start a timer on 15 minutes.
One word of caution, never stop stimulating the rest of her body too! Excepting, of course, during the times I told you to let her cool off. Then you are to stop stimulating her completely.
Keep on working on her exitement. If the timer comes off before she cums, it is over.
If she cums (or she beggins cumming) before the timer, you get to repeat it again.
But do not tell her that! Just do it, you are the Master.
When the timer finally comes off before she does... slap her clit 5 times hard. Again, this action is not consistent with the rest of the dare... She will not expect it, so she will be really surprised and will enjoy it inmensely.
Give her the 3 action treatment, proceed with the longest french kiss of your life. It is now over.
Finish the encounter by telling her whe is in denial until morning.
I know she isn't into the pain much. However you are the Master and you should spice it up a bit.
If you really don't want to do that, just don't do those parts. However, know that a little pain will really spice things up quite a bit.
