Hi!
I recently started dating a really sweet guy I like a lot. He has some particular sexual interests I have never personally explored, but I am willing. He likes humiliation to some extent and I know he likes me to be mean to him. I am completely open to that, but it just has never been my style to treat my romantic partner that way. Teasing and silly, fine. Or maybe even just "mean" behind closed doors. In fact, sexually I am much more submissive so it feels a bit forced sometimes but I am super into him and he seems to like me a lot and want me to do these things. Today he asked about being mean to him the majority of the time, not just sexually, and that he really wanted that from me. I told him give me some time to practice! So here I am, trying to do some research. However it should be said, he isn't what I would necessarily call submissive. I, for example, as a sub would not ever consider demanding anything of a dom. He also doesn't like me to be mean about certain things or at certain times, which seem a little unpredictable.
Any advice from anyone on either side? What kind of things do you like to hear? What kind of tasks or dares? Mostly just curious for some ideas on what others like to try out with him. Thanks in advance!
I recently started dating a really sweet guy I like a lot. He has some particular sexual interests I have never personally explored, but I am willing. He likes humiliation to some extent and I know he likes me to be mean to him. I am completely open to that, but it just has never been my style to treat my romantic partner that way. Teasing and silly, fine. Or maybe even just "mean" behind closed doors. In fact, sexually I am much more submissive so it feels a bit forced sometimes but I am super into him and he seems to like me a lot and want me to do these things. Today he asked about being mean to him the majority of the time, not just sexually, and that he really wanted that from me. I told him give me some time to practice! So here I am, trying to do some research. However it should be said, he isn't what I would necessarily call submissive. I, for example, as a sub would not ever consider demanding anything of a dom. He also doesn't like me to be mean about certain things or at certain times, which seem a little unpredictable.
Any advice from anyone on either side? What kind of things do you like to hear? What kind of tasks or dares? Mostly just curious for some ideas on what others like to try out with him. Thanks in advance!
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