newbie

[beepbeep]

I'm a 24 year old girl, i find myself constantly drawn to master slave scenarios but don't know how to go about entering one. Reading on here about online deception etc, where is a good place to look? Initially I want an online experience, me as the slave

 

[deancamuk]

Your search is complete

hey

if u add my msn, i can satisfy this need you have.

lets kick it off and see where it goes from there, don't worry i have webcam.

 

[dared 2 perfection]

yeah as the above user has said i would suggest you first get to know the person and ensure they have a webcam so they can give you evidence that they are who they truely say they are!

IF they refuse and you are unsure drop them as they probably don't deserve your trust, obviously they may want you to prove the same thing but once identities are established you should not then feel pressured to do anything further on cam should you not want to.

 

[Torturer]

first off, good luck in you search, I dont think many of us in here would say no to being your master

Be aware that you are wanted, the hard part here is not finding one, but finding the right one, it will take time, and a few tries, dont give up after the first few faliures.

I could give you tons of useless advice, still can if you want them, but to answer you question.

Here are places I would reccomend.

www.collarme.com very good bdsm personals, large free and international.

www.bondage.com another bdsm personals, I dont think it is quite as large, but worth checking out

irc chat
bondage.com has an irc channel #bondage nice crowd in there

and you can search in here of course
http://www.kinktalk.com/talk/forumdisplay.php?f=23

I am sure we would all love to play with you

 

[justamale]

Welcome..


My suggeyion would be to read other peoples post, see what they like, read on the web (some stuff is bs).
Find out what you want from it, find out what limits by reading others say what they ares and find out what gets you really hot.

Talk to peole ask them how they got into the scene, what do they enhoy how do they enjoy it...

If you ask you will find an answer


Always rember each Dom/me may be diffrent to others!

 

[masterlaw]

read, read, read and read some more (then look at pics and vids hoho)

If you are into the idea, i`m sure you read quite a bit all ready and yets face the internet is basically porn so lots of sites you can read up about. My suggestion is find out about yourself first, find the things that turn you on, what fetish's you like etc..

Find out what you want from ya master, do you want to daily tasks, orgasm control via webcam, dominated over email, chat domination etc.. The list is endless and you will find something u think "man thats hot", from there look on sites which specalise in that fetish and look around see the pics/vids etc..

Once you are sorted and what you want and know want you want from master time to start hunting. The getdare.com has list of master/mistress (i see u are bi), post a reply to the ones that interest you and get chatting. Yes online deception is out there and u have to be careful get a good feel on who the person is on the end of the chat.

ANother idea is contact some of the slaves on getdare and ask them to recommand someone to you, this would cut down on online decption. The good news is your a girl, which basically means you will get tons of mail if you post on a forum and you can pick a mistress/master at your own pace.

Take ya time and pick the right one for you and then a whole new world will open up and u will find out more about yourself.

Send me a post if u have any questions and i`ll get back to you, if not GL beepbeep hope u enjoy yourself