Partner in denial

BlaqNV

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Hi people, I'm hoping to get some clarity on something my partner and I can't seem to agree on. Ok so a few months back she came to me with the biggest grin on her face to show me some porn she'd stumbled across. There was 2 videos, the first was a real rough spitroast where the f was getting her ass slammed into oblivion to the point of an extreme leg quivering orgasm while her throat was being well ...... destroyed and the second was again another rough scene but this time it was a gangbang. After showing me the videos she then tells me how wet and horny she got watching them. Now the issue here is she's now denying that that's what she's in to because I believe if something arouses you that it clearly means it's a kink/fetish of yours. She is completely denying it now even though it's not an issue if it's what she's in to. I've tried saying that if I got aroused by two men wouldn't that mean I have gay/bi tendencies and she says it isn't the same. Can I add we've been together 15 yrs Feb just gone. Any input is great either way it's looked at
 

MacBr

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Why can't it simply be something that got arouses her, and nothing more?
To me, it looks like you missed an opportunity to have her introducing something she considered as a fun element: showing you certain videos, telling you how it makes her feel and seeing how you react.

Just go with the flow and let her decide what she is in to and what not. Of course ask it once, but if the answer is a clear 'no', don't push it? Even when you have the feeling the answer is actually yes.
 
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Phil0110

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I don't properly understand what is the problem? Do you think that you're bi? I don't think so, just read articles about sexual relevance. Sometimes people can watch how monkeys have sex and also arouse, but they don't zoophile, our brain relates it to sexuality and we are turned on
 

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