(I use 'sub' and 'dom' loosely to encompass all forms of submissive and dominant personalities. This is based on online d/s relationships but may be related to real life too)
This all stemmed from a conversation I had with a girl who used to be my sub. She's a switch and we talk regularly but I am not her Dom/Master/Owner, but we do play on the rare occasion, when she feels like being dominated (she is more dominant and has her own sub anyway). But that's besides the point....
The last time we had a little 'session' we spoke about her sub and I joked that since the switch submitting to me at that point, her sub was also mine. This begged the question,well..... is she?
I'm not much of a sub, so if and when I have a sub who is a switch I always say they are allowed to have a sub or two of their own if they wish. But what do you think? Is my subs' sub, my sub? 0_o
Doms: If you're switch had his/her own sub(s), do you think you would want to have a 'claim' on them, or have rights over them too? Do you think you should have any?
Switches: Would you say that your dom had rights over your subs too?
Subs: If your dom was a switch and had a dom themselves, would you obey their dom?
I'm just curious. Me and my friends had a little discussion and decided it would just be personal preference and based upon the individuals likes, dislikes and limits. How do you see it? Is it based on the individuals involved, is there some unwritten rule somewhere that I should here about? Go wild
This all stemmed from a conversation I had with a girl who used to be my sub. She's a switch and we talk regularly but I am not her Dom/Master/Owner, but we do play on the rare occasion, when she feels like being dominated (she is more dominant and has her own sub anyway). But that's besides the point....
The last time we had a little 'session' we spoke about her sub and I joked that since the switch submitting to me at that point, her sub was also mine. This begged the question,well..... is she?
I'm not much of a sub, so if and when I have a sub who is a switch I always say they are allowed to have a sub or two of their own if they wish. But what do you think? Is my subs' sub, my sub? 0_o
Doms: If you're switch had his/her own sub(s), do you think you would want to have a 'claim' on them, or have rights over them too? Do you think you should have any?
Switches: Would you say that your dom had rights over your subs too?
Subs: If your dom was a switch and had a dom themselves, would you obey their dom?
I'm just curious. Me and my friends had a little discussion and decided it would just be personal preference and based upon the individuals likes, dislikes and limits. How do you see it? Is it based on the individuals involved, is there some unwritten rule somewhere that I should here about? Go wild