I lost it when i was 17, with my current bf. It wasnt really great, i was very nervous and it waa his first time too.
I did when 18, on my bf birthday, as a present for him. I liked it but he thought it was gross so i havent done it much.
The first time i gave bj was before my first time, i dont remember when, it was nice and he came in mouth (and i swallow)
When i do ot myself i usually just rub my clit, thats enough for me but sometimes i use my toys