Warning! Rant Ahead
I feel some people in kink sites think that every person/female, dom/me or sub here is extremely kinky [like that's all they think about or do], some sort of sex expert, looking to provide other people with some sort of prof wanking services. Through this post I want to say without any judgement as I respect everyone and the role they play in the society, that many kinksters on this site are also quite vanilla, educated and intelligent people involved in regular vanilla professions with regular family, friends and hobbies/interests in the real world, and are here to only explore their kinky side often very part time and discretely, and interact with some like minded genuine people or participate in some thoughtful discussion threads.
The gender ratio in these sites are skewed adversely and so when the few genuine females who are active do post, make sure their experience in this site is healthy and read their profiles, and a good number of their posts in the past to understand what they are into or if they are looking for something before you make a presumptuous move which may put them off from actively posting. Doing some research before approaching will help you customize your message and thus increase your chances of getting more affirmative responses and a politer tone takes you far. Just my two cents.
I am writing about this as this is not something that happens once or twice but is quite common and quite a few [mostly men] people do this in kink sites if you ask any genuine female.
So if you want the gender ratio on these sites to improve, the choice is yours!
Rant Over, Thank you for reading!
Note: If you do not like what I ranted about please ignore instead of flaming. This is a personal blog and not a discussion thread and I am free to express my thoughts without having to defend them. No comments on this please.
I feel some people in kink sites think that every person/female, dom/me or sub here is extremely kinky [like that's all they think about or do], some sort of sex expert, looking to provide other people with some sort of prof wanking services. Through this post I want to say without any judgement as I respect everyone and the role they play in the society, that many kinksters on this site are also quite vanilla, educated and intelligent people involved in regular vanilla professions with regular family, friends and hobbies/interests in the real world, and are here to only explore their kinky side often very part time and discretely, and interact with some like minded genuine people or participate in some thoughtful discussion threads.
The gender ratio in these sites are skewed adversely and so when the few genuine females who are active do post, make sure their experience in this site is healthy and read their profiles, and a good number of their posts in the past to understand what they are into or if they are looking for something before you make a presumptuous move which may put them off from actively posting. Doing some research before approaching will help you customize your message and thus increase your chances of getting more affirmative responses and a politer tone takes you far. Just my two cents.
I am writing about this as this is not something that happens once or twice but is quite common and quite a few [mostly men] people do this in kink sites if you ask any genuine female.
So if you want the gender ratio on these sites to improve, the choice is yours!
Rant Over, Thank you for reading!
Note: If you do not like what I ranted about please ignore instead of flaming. This is a personal blog and not a discussion thread and I am free to express my thoughts without having to defend them. No comments on this please.
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